Monday, May 04, 2015
Quality
Culture in A Family
Family
is a mini society. People with different temperaments, values and beliefs live
together under a single roof to have peace and contentment at the family level
is essential if we want it in the society and nation but we cannot change
anybody. That includes family members this world is an intricately interwoven
web of relationship. To mange this well, we have to change ourselves and our
perceptions. The programme for Building a Quality Culture in the Family, we
have to deal with many sensitive matters like ego, communication, aligning
values and principles etc. let us remember the importance of the following
points.
Your
family can be heaven or hell. It all depends on you as you are the one creating
happiness or unhappiness because of the way you think.
Problems
are inside out. Never outside in.
Conscience
always directs us to the right way
Accepting
people as they are is right way to start with.
Parents
are the first teachers.
Ego
kills harmony in the family.,
We are
all millionaires . The body , mind, heart and soul are invaluable gifts of God
has given to us.
We
should learn from the tree . it is always giving! The roots are our perceptions
the stem is our attitude and leaves are our behavior. If we want our behavior
to change , we have to change our perceptions.
If you
want a rose, you have to accept the thorns.
The mind
talks everything knows nothing. The hart knows everything talks nothing.
Words
create a lot of trouble . Talking is an art. It is also a science . Practice
how to talk , how much to talk, when to talk and what to talk. Whenever we
talk, we talk from our point of view. Try talking from the other person’s point
of view.
The
power of the spoken word is so great that you can create a reaction in someone
forever!
There
are four kinds of listening 1 ignore, 2 Pretend ;3 selective, 4 Attentive;
Listening with eyes ears and mind;
As Alwin
Tofler said. “the future illiterate will not be those who cannot read but those
who cannot learn.
Pray as
if everything depends upon God and work as if everything depended upon man.
Quote
from the True charm and Power of Vedanta
Besides
prayer and worship, association with advanced souls is also of great value in
the development of Bhakti . it is said that even a moments association with a
holy person serves as a boat in which the ocean of the good fortune to know a
true saint, he gets a glimpse of the Ideal realized in life and is often
impelled t seek such a realization himself. Many persons refuse to believe n
the help that can be received from a Guru, or spiritual teacher. According to
them there is no necessity for an intermediary in religious life because light
can come direct from the source of all lights. This view may be partially the result
of the reaction caused b the finding of many false Gurus who have often make a
trade of religion. But barring such exceptions. Thee is as much necessity of a
genuine teacher in the sphere of religion as in other walks of life. Although
theoretically a person can have education without a teacher, almost all send
their children to schools and colleges . similarly , it is no doubt possible to
realize God without any help from outside but such a possibility will only be
within the capacity of very rare and
exceptional soul; all others must depend on help from more advanced souls,
Fortunate, indeed , is the Bhakta who comes across a Guru who is a man of
realization or a highly advanced soul, for such a Guru not only instructs, but
I sable to transmit to his disciple the strength and power necessary to carry
out instructions.
But, if He exists?
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7
minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his
colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting
ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The
doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten
minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire
lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you
grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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