Quality Culture in A Family

Monday, May 04, 2015

Quality Culture in A Family

Family is a mini society. People with different temperaments, values and beliefs live together under a single roof to have peace and contentment at the family level is essential if we want it in the society and nation but we cannot change anybody. That includes family members this world is an intricately interwoven web of relationship. To mange this well, we have to change ourselves and our perceptions. The programme for Building a Quality Culture in the Family, we have to deal with many sensitive matters like ego, communication, aligning values and principles etc. let us remember the importance of the following points.

Your family can be heaven or hell. It all depends on you as you are the one creating happiness or unhappiness because of the way you think.

Problems are inside out. Never outside in.

Conscience always directs us to the right way

Accepting people as they are is right way to start with.

Parents are the first teachers.

Ego kills harmony in the family.,

We are all millionaires . The body , mind, heart and soul are invaluable gifts of God has given to us.

We should learn from the tree . it is always giving! The roots are our perceptions the stem is our attitude and leaves are our behavior. If we want our behavior to change , we have to change our perceptions.

If you want a rose, you have to accept the thorns.

The mind talks everything knows nothing. The hart knows everything talks nothing.

Words create a lot of trouble . Talking is an art. It is also a science . Practice how to talk , how much to talk, when to talk and what to talk. Whenever we talk, we talk from our point of view. Try talking from the other person’s point of view.

The power of the spoken word is so great that you can create a reaction in someone forever!

There are four kinds of listening 1 ignore, 2 Pretend ;3 selective, 4 Attentive; Listening with eyes ears and mind;

As Alwin Tofler said. “the future illiterate will not be those who cannot read but those who cannot learn.

Pray as if everything depends upon God and work as if everything depended upon man.

Quote from the True charm and Power of Vedanta

Besides prayer and worship, association with advanced souls is also of great value in the development of Bhakti . it is said that even a moments association with a holy person serves as a boat in which the ocean of the good fortune to know a true saint, he gets a glimpse of the Ideal realized in life and is often impelled t seek such a realization himself. Many persons refuse to believe n the help that can be received from a Guru, or spiritual teacher. According to them there is no necessity for an intermediary in religious life because light can come direct from the source of all lights. This view may be partially the result of the reaction caused b the finding of many false Gurus who have often make a trade of religion. But barring such exceptions. Thee is as much necessity of a genuine teacher in the sphere of religion as in other walks of life. Although theoretically a person can have education without a teacher, almost all send their children to schools and colleges . similarly , it is no doubt possible to realize God without any help from outside but such a possibility will only be within the capacity of  very rare and exceptional soul; all others must depend on help from more advanced souls, Fortunate, indeed , is the Bhakta who comes across a Guru who is a man of realization or a highly advanced soul, for such a Guru not only instructs, but I sable to transmit to his disciple the strength and power necessary to carry out instructions.

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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