Monday 2 December 2013
Self Image
Everyone likes to succeed in life, in order to succeed, we must develop right attitude. To begin with, any task we wish to complete , must be well begun. How would one say will begun”? it could be with right courage, perspective and above all self-esteem, which could really make a us competent to achieve anything.
Self –image is an important ingredient of self-esteem. It means our own opinion about ourselves’ if we hold a low opinion about ourselves, we stand discouraged before we start off. Any number of external inspiration cannot inspire us further. Remember, here are many hurdles in building up-right attitude about ourselves. Of them all low image plays a negative role and spoils our inter-personal relationship, performance of work and ultimately leading to failure whereas the attitude I can do it builds up our self esteem. Hereby giving us satisfying results. Self-esteem give strong conviction. Develops positive attitudes, inspires us to accept responsibilities , makes us self-inspired, improves our performance in work, thus leading to success in everything we do.
Special qualities of successful people
They are ambitious; successful people have an ambition and are about to recognize their capacity of being good at what they do.
When you see people who were doing better than you , you assume they are better than you . that would mean they are superior and you are inferior . you have feeling of inferiority and these feelings are often translated into feelings of diffidence. You feel you don’t deserve to be successful.
They are courageous; they face the fears that hold most people back. The two biggest enemies of our success is fear and doubt. Eliminating fear and doubt is the key for success.
If you want to develop courage, then simply act courageously when it is called for . When you do something reputedly, you develop a habit.
If you do the thing you fear, your defeating the fear in certain. The ability to attack fear is the mark of the superior person.
They are committed; The top people in every field are completely committed . people who are not committed to what they do lead very empty lives. They believe in themselves they believe n their companies and their customers; believe in the rightness and the goodness of what they re doing.
They are prepared; they review every details in advance . to be in the top requires additional efforts. It requires doing things that the average person is not willing to do. It requires making sacrifices the average person is not willing to make.
They are contiguous learner; They recognize that if they are not continually getting better , they are getting worse. They read, they listen to great persons and they take additional training
Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta
As we unfold our spiritual consciousness, we think and live aright. Whatever approaches us we take at its proper valuation and not as it appears. Nothing can deceive us; therefore we do not labour for what is false and unreal. There are people who work faithfully, but they feel the burden of life because their effort does not bring the desired results why is this? It is because their effort is not controlled by discriminating. It is not directed by a purpose that is definite and single. Single heartedness does not come until we have the higher faculty of discrimination awakened within us; only then do we think consciously and we are not lead away by passing fancies. If something arises that appeals to us and arouses our desire, we do not struggle to gain it without reflecting whether it will bring us a blessing or not.
The delusive power of God has played such a clever game that the King of the Universe forgetting his Real nature has become tiny jiva subject to all types of changes.
IF HE EXIST
