Basic Law of Right Behavior

Monday, 15 January 2018

Basic Law of Right Behavior

The basic law of right human behaviours is self-reform whenever any trouble occurs with our friends or dear ones, we should inwardly lay the blame on ourselves for getting into an unpleasant situation and then try to get out of it as fast and as graciously as we can . it is fruitless to increase the trouble by loudly, unkindly, discourtesiouly blaming others, even though we find that they are to blame. We can teach ill-tempered dear ones to mend their faults-a hindered times better by setting a good example then we can, by harsh or self-righteous words.

Parmananda yogananda

Common and uncommon

In a free society all men are common in their rights and opportunities. They are frequently uncommon in their individual capacities to contribute to the common good.

Prepare Your Mind and Heart

What we say may be less important than how we say it. So, before your children return from school full of their own needs, stop and get control. Set your mind and heart. Choose pleasantness and cheerfulness. Choose to give full attention to their needs. Ask yourself. How can I bless my wife( or husband) and children to night? Choosing to be your best will arrest tiresomeness and renew your best relations.

Wise thought

All truly wise thoughts have been thought already thousands of times; but to make them truly ours, we must think them over again honestly , till they take root in our personal experience.  Johann Goethe

Love will Come Back to You

Do not hate anybody, because that hatred which comes out from you must in the long run come back to you. If you love that love will come back to you completing the circuit.

Give , Just as God Gives to Us

In this world, take always the position of the giver. Give love, give help, give service, give any little thing you can, but keep out a bargain.

Make no conditions and none will be imposed; let us give out of our bounty just as God gives to us. Swami Vivekananda

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

Conflict Between Faith and Reason

A western Experience only, Not Indian.

In English, we call , it faith and reason. In Sanskrit there are very beautiful words to convey these, same ideas. The best word for faith in Sanskrit is sraddha; it is a very great word in our tradition, and conveys must more than the English word faith, or belief. The equivalent for reason in Sanskit is yukti, upapatti, or even buddhi. How do these two , faith and reason, stand in relation to each other? So far as the West is concerned, these two have been perpetually in conflict with each other from the very beginning of history faith in conflict with reason, or reason in conflict with faith. And most of us in India, being educated largely in the Western way, have also learnt to accept that these two are in eternal conflict with each other.

It is time that we understand the relationship between these two from the Indian point of view. We shall then realise that these two posses and intimate, and in separable, relationship with each other in man’s search for truth. We never experienced that recurring conflict between faith and reason which is so characteristic a feature of Western history-as much in its history of science as in its history of religion. When we orient our minds in terms of our own tradition, we shall see not only these two , but also man’s search for truth and life fulfilment, in a new light, revealing also the complementary role of physical science and religion in the great search. Courtesy science and religion. The story of that conflict in the west.

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

Illustrated live Reviews. 7thHEAVEN  moment of the week In Gerona’s no 7 scored a goal 7thhaven.in  and get a Lucky7 charm email id

Gifts

Monday 26–July- 2010
Gifts
Your good is here. Accept it!
Your joy is near. Embrace it!
Your power is within.
Harness it!
Your victory is now.
Claim it!
Your freedom is real.
Declare it!
Your abundance is overflowing. Share it!
Your prosperity is good.
Receive it!
Your problem is purposeful.
Bless it!
Your spirit is divine. Free it!
Your faith is mighty(Hinduism). Use it!
Your song is beautiful. Sing it!-
William Arthur Ward
How to control Anger?
Sages and savants have described anger as the most destructive human emotion. It not only disturbs our peace of mind but also brings untold suffering in the shape of bad health and poor relationships. The opposite to anger is patience and acceptance. A healthy and joyous life is possible only if we put anger under control
For most of us, never getting angry is impossible but we can certainly modify our behavior to make a situation better identifying the basic cause of anger and coming to understand whether it needs a short term or long-term management, strategies to keep anger under control are helpful only when we come to find out its reasons.
Experts believe that the real problem is not anger but the mismanagement of it. Before we get carried away by it or say or do something, we should consider the possible negative effects of anger. It is important to let people close to you know hat something is bothering you. Putting focus on finding a solution for the problem is a positive approach to come out of a puzzling situation.
Many times anger and other frustrations arise due to certain inescapable problems . in our day-to-day life we see that anger, even if it I justified can quickly turn irrational . Angry people tend to jump to and act on conclusions which is heated moments can be self-destructive . Slowing down, thinking carefully and listening to what the other person is saying gives us time to gain composer and react in a measured manner.
Sometime our immediate surrounding and the person around give us cause for irrational and fury. Putting yourself in other person’s shoes also helps you gain a different understanding. When anger is building up, just pause and try to think in a positive manner . speak carefully to dissolve the heat of the moment. A touch of humour can also help diffuse difficult situations.
While arguing, it is better to attach the problem and not the person and also be aware of when to quit. If you feel your anger might get out of control, take slow and deep breathing and try to change the place or the environment.
It is said that anger exists in the mind and is the direct result of our thoughts. Always blaming our difficulties on others is a sure sign of many problems and faults within our mind. If we are truly balanced inside and have our mind under control, even difficult people and circumstances would not be able to disturb us.
Our physical and mental health is closely related to each other. Taking care of the body by exercising regularly , eating right food, getting enough sleep meaning time properly and adhering to mental discipline along with a flexible and friendly attitude towards everybody gives us enough advantages to face difficult strains. Yoga and mediation are also increasingly seen as quite helpful for angry and stressed persons.
Brilliant Conversationalist.
A gossip is one who talk to you about others. A bore is one who talks to you about himself. A brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself.
Neighbor listens
In the first year of marriage , the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbor listens.
Strange Definitions
Relatives; People who never leave you alone with your happiness.
Neighbours; People who know more about you than you know about yourself.
Journalist; A man who announces the death of Lord So and So to people who never knew when he was alive.
Reader; A person whose TV is at the repair shop
Psychiatrist; One who does not have to worry as long as other people do.
Woman. ; A problem which most men like to wrestle with.
Give and Take
No on is so rich that he does not need another’s help no one is so poor as not to be useful in some way to his fellowman; and the tendency to ask assistance from other with confidence and to grant it with kindness, is part of our very nature.
Values of Live (Live) By
A love of truth-essential for a just, and
Progressive society
A Sense of Justice-recognition of the rights and needs of all
A spirit of cooperation-based on active good will and the
Principle of right human relation affairs
Serving the common Good-through the sacrifice of
Selfishness. Only what is god for all is good for each one
These are spiritual values, inspiring the conscience and
The consciousness of those who serve to create a better way of life
-Courtesy Time.
Conquer fear and you can command your destiny
Imagination plays a very great part in producing fear. Man lives in constant fear and restlessness. He is afraid of accidents, disease, dishonor and separation from dear ones and death.
Try to find the cause of fear. Weak will is the main cause . timid ness and fear go together.
Fear chills the heart and turns the hairs grey . fear breeds fear.
Fear turns a king into a beggar. Fearlessness turns a beggar into a king.
Never entertain even a single thought of fear. Fear kills a man many times before his actual death.
Fearlessness is the greatest virtue. Fear is the greatest vice.
Do not cause fear in any heart.
Do not become a source of fear for anyone. Be simple . Be loving cheerful and compassionate.
Contract fear by entertaining thoughts of courage, boldness, cheerfulness and faith in Divine Grace.
-Swami Jyotirmayanada
Set Standards and Demand Excellence
1. You must set priorities. I always remember my father said” Your health comes first; without that you have nothing.
2. You need an ability to grab hold of tough problems and not delegate them. It is not fair to allow the person below you take the brunt of making the hand decisions.
3. Set and demand standards of excellence. Anybody who accepts mediocrity in school, on the job, in life is a person who compromises.
4. You need a sense of urgency. It is absolutely better to do something, recognizing that it may not be the right thing but better than do nothing at all.
5. Pay attention to details . Getting the facts is the key to good decision making
6. You need commitment. You can always pick out the person who has a commitment.
7. Do not waste your time worrying about things you cannot do anything about.
8. You need the ability to fail. I am amazed at the number of organizations that were set up and the environment where thy do not permit their people to be wrong.
9. Be tough but fair with people, being tough means setting standards and demanding performance. (Pemba)

Quote from true religion always helps
Religion teaches us even to look on suffering as an expression of God’s compassion, and on disease as a form of austerity. He sends us these for our spiritual growth. When the painful death of a dearest one makes us almost insane, nothing but the wisdom and sympathy of true religion give us solace.

I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
Illustrated live Review/Revision-f1 ferarri 7 won a podium SIGNUP HERE AS you@yehoo.co.in(keep in mind its eee) use it all your emailing job deals

Be Well Poised

Monday 10–May- 2010
Be Well Poised
People in key jobs are usually surrounded by a hype. This work based hype makes us a bit haughty. Too. It is , indeed, music to our ears when people remark many people work under him/her, or …”is like a mini boss to us”; Oh!.. is part of major official decisions’ and often, be essence of these flattering remarks goes to our heads.
If you feel that this is confined to ‘big wings’, you are mistaken. Even middle-order job positions also carry such an aura around them. The workforce concerned or candidates holding such positions truly enjoy their boosted image. But the sailing is quite smooth as long as they don’t rub the flatters on the wrong side. As long as this does not happen, you can enjoy the puff and glamour of it. The real trouble comes calling when you really start believing that “ you are the best”. When you start insisting your status, the yes-men/women never responded you honestly and have even kept bad news away form your ears.
On the other hand, your insistence paints you cold, haughty, and pompous, eroding into total destruction of your image. The trust and support of your sycophant colleagues and subordinates vanishes. The end result is the accelerated stress and anxiety as you become paranoid about losing your importance. So you must realize that such hype or false image you have let the people surrounding you, build about you, doesn’t help you in any way. You ought to strike a balance in your relationship with your colleagues, subordinates and not indulge in ‘self-love or egotism.
In order to attain this balanced state of mind, you should kick off delusions about yourself. Always strive to keep yourself firmly panted in reality, in true perspective-you are not irreplaceable at all. This is possible only when your are detached, dispassionate and work with humility by not taking your position too seriously. Don’t bother how other treat you or think of you . Be focused solely on your work. This will give you a simple and calm outlook which will help you to free yourself from the over whelming feeling of self importance.
So stay humble and focused and be ahead on your path to success.
Poised and focused are the mantra to succeed.
Don’t Be Afraid To Trust Faith
Every individual forms his own estimate of himself and that basic estimate goes far towards determining what he becomes . You can do no more than you trust you can. You can be more than you think you are . Trust simulates power within yourself. Have faith in faith. Don’t be afraid to trust faith.
Learn to Balance Anxiety
As long as we walk on a smooth and straight path, we enjoy the walk, But when a U turn comes, we pause, anxiously wait to hear the sound of the oncoming vehicles in the opposite direction. Suddenly our joy comes to an end.
Sudden changes make us anxious. To avoid anxiety, we shun and resist changes. We do not try to adapt ourselves so changes.
No doubt certain things in our lives are beyond our control. But certainly, there are things which are under our control; anxiety is one of them. Infect, it has its positive effects on us as it keeps us comes. So we must learn to balance our anxiety and use it to explore new avenues of growth. Lest it leads to adverse effect on our health and creates confusion in our career.
Remember great leaders have tamed anxiety and converted it into positive driving force. All great achievers share certain common personality traits such as; the ability to embrace change; skill to learn from every situation and openness of mind to new idea; have ambitious plans to future, ability to act appropriately at the right time by neither delaying in making decisions nor making hasty decisions, willingness to adapt new ideas and stretch to new goals and above all manage the anxiety and help others do the same. Some amount of anxiety is necessary to push you out of your comfort zone and make you realize your potentialities . learn to balance anxiety.
Quote from True Religion always help
The Bhagavad-Gita teaches
Him I hold to be the supreme yogi who looks on the pleasure and pain of all beings as he looks on them in himself.
The Dharmapada Teaches;
All men tremble at punishment all men fear death. Liking others to oneself , one should neither slay nor cause slay.:
Like wise we read in the New Testament;
This is one voice of religion everywhere on the basis of which alone protection from injury is possible. And this principle holds good in family, society and national and international relationships.
Many of our conflicts can be traced to the violation of this golden principle of human conduct, which is one of the fundamental principles of true religion.

I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
Illustrated live Review/Revision-in t20 pak vs new 132/3-133/7, , ,SIGNUP HERE AS you@yehoo.co.in(keep in mind its eee) use it all your emailing job deals

Complacency

Monday 26–April- 2010
Complacency
Being satisfied and pleased with oneself is one thing. Having respect for oneself is another.
Once you reach your goal you gain confidence. You use this confidence to set new goals to achieve. That is what creative living is all about. But when should one be proud of one’s achievement? When you develop confidence on your own initiative , there is no shame in being pr0ud of it. You don’t have to brag about it; but you can look at yourself with kind eyes and, with approval, you can accept yourself for what you are and what you can be . This does not mean complacency, being satisfied with your lot and staying that way.
Complacency is variation of conceit, because you like yourself and go on liking yourself for what you have achieved, feeling you need not achieve anymore. Complacency and humility do not go together, but confidence and humility do. There is a hidden danger in being complacent . soon you become passive and rest on your laurels, whatever they may be. Then you slowly retire from the realities of life. Creative living means that you must always keep moving in the stream of things. You can still enjoy a vacation now and relax in the room of your mind to renew your energies and your courage to tackle life’s problems complacency signals that you are resting too long. All rest and no work makes you dull, uninteresting, lifeless.
No one can make you complacent without your consent.
Wisdom Speak
Life without goodness, good thoughts, good action and good words is like the sky in the night without the moon or stars. it is like a wheel without a hub or spokes. No one can push a boulder away while standing on it; you cannot be free from anxiety while all the entrances though whish it sneaks in are open- Atharva Veda
Treat those who are good with goodness and also treat those who are not with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honestly is attained.
We can work together for a better world with men and women of goodwill, those who radiate the intrinsic goodness of humankind.
Make every effort to pray from the heart. Even if you don’t succeed in the eyes of the Lord, the effort is precious.
We must learn to let go, to give up, to make room for the things we have prayed for and desired.
Quote from True religion always help
True, education without religion may produce intellectual giant. But they may very well turn out to be dangerous giants, though highly intellectual . education allied with true religion can also create intellectual giants. But they are not likely to be dangerous.
So we see how far reaching the role of religion is in the growth and development of the young, on whom depends the destiny of the nation and humanity itself.
Teacher ; As we have just learned the Earth is round and hangs in space without any support. Oliver , please tel the class how you can prove it.
Oliver ; I don’t have t prove it. I never said that it does.

I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
Illustrated live Review/Revision-in bundas league feeber 7 scored a goal, , ,SIGNUP HERE AS you@yehoo.co.in(keep in mind its eee) use it all your emailing job deals

Let The Rose Grow Within You

Monday, November 2, 2009
Let The Rose Grow Within You
Once a man planted a rose plant and watered it regularly. One day, he saw a bud appearing on the plant. Suddenly he felt that the bud cannot blossom into a beautiful flower as the plant is infested with thorns all over. He was so saddened and despaired that he stopped watering the plant. Soon it died..
The simple tale has a lot to do with us. Very few of us realize that thee is a rose within us. The God-like sweet qualities are implanted in our hearts when we are born. They grow amid the thorns of our faults. When we look at ourselves and others we see only faults beyond mending. We despair, thinking that nothing good can possibly be found in and around us. We totally neglect or fail to find the hidden goodness in us and we never realize our own latent potential to improve an change ourselves.
Sometimes we need someone else to show what we are. One of the greatest gifts we possess is our ability to overcome the thorns within us and find our own good ‘self’. This is the chief characteristic of love, which helps us look at the persons, knowing their faults, recognize their nobility and help them to overcome their faults. If we show them the rose, they can conquer the thorns. Hence it is our duty to help others by showing their roses and not merely their thorns. Only then it is possible to develop harmony among people around us.
(From Inspiration Quote)
Harmonizing One’s Thoughts and Speech, the Principal Practice. Quote from essence of Gita
The chief practice for this is to make our thoughts and speech agree with one another . Sir Ramakrishna used to say that real spiritual practice consist of making our thought and speech one. If we make our thoughts and speech the same and pray to God, won’t He answer our prayer? Remember the story of Dhruva; In the forest he prayed to God after making his thoughts and speech one. There was none to help him; he didn’t even have the help of a teacher. Because he had made his thoughts and speech one, God gave him a teacher and blessed him with His vision. Once we make our thoughts and speech identical, God will provide us with whatever we need. Even in the Gita , Sri Krishna tells us; “Make your thoughts and speech one.”
Humour in Life
Once a farmer awakened his hired hand just before Sunrise. They dressed up and then had breakfast. When the breakfast was over the hired hand said, “How about having lunch right now. We can save time by finishing it now. Then we wont have to stop work at all at noon. What do you say?’’
The farmer thought the idea was worth a try, so then and there they ate their lunch.
Then the hired hand said , ‘if we eat our supper now, we can work straight through till it’s dark why don’t we do that?’
The farmer thought that sounded good, too, so they immediately sat down to “Supper”.
When the meal was finished the hired man began taking off his shoes.
“What are you doing now?’ there farmer asked.
“Well”, said the hired hand, “I always go to bed right after supper”.
All things which have a soul, change and possess in themselves more according to the law and to the order of destiny.
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
Illustrated live Review/Revision- epl Liverpool9, fulham 10, mmb9(ongc), and India’s 7 got a man of the match on cricket in second one day.