Monday 7.July 2014
They conquer Who believe They can
Self-confidence , the key to success is a trust of faith n your own
self. That is being certain that what you are doing is perfectly correct. Here
are few tips to help you increase your self-confidence.
Be up-to-date: always have a good amount of information on the topics of
general and current interest . if at a gathering. The conversation turns to any
of the current topics, you should be able to discuss it intelligently.
And even if you have no information on it, you can still participate
passively by listening ot th3 conversation.
Believe in yourself. : Whenever you speak something , do it with self
confidence. If you don’t believe that what you say is interesting. How will the
audience find it interesting? Speak slowly and in a well modulated tone so that
the listener can understand yo clearly. Always keep a good posture. A relaxed
erect posture leads you to give clear and well thought out response in a
discussion.
Look smart: make sure that you are well dressed first impression is the
best impression and people evaluate you first from your appearance.
Make some auto suggestions; even when you are not confident or sure of
yourself think that you are very confident. As for example. If you are to
introduce a speaker for the first time in your life and you are feeling nervous
of public speaking , believe that you
will do it in a perfect way . for example a child secures the 1st rank
in class and the other child gets 12’ rank . then the parents scold the child
and tell him.” you are a useless boy, you don’t have brains that is why you
cannot come first. When the child hears this over and over. Gradually he starts
believing them. As a result he suffers from inferiority complex that may lead
to self-defeat.
Implementing all these suggestion will be of great help . Apart from
this, you can also give yourself an auto suggestion like “I have full
self-confidence and I will introduce the speaker in the beast possible way.”
Think of your past success: Try and remember your achievements as
frequently as you can. As for example, how you did well in your examinations or
how you managed a very critical situation with great ease.
Do some Daydreaming. Create a mental picture of yourself as a very
successful person. Gradually from your conscious mind it will seep into your
subconscious mind and before you realise it, you will be totally a different
person.
Be optimistic; Whenever a negative thought arises cancel it with a
positive thought . as for example if you think you will not be able to give a
speech properly; immediately cancel it with a positive thought by thinking
that you will be able to give the speech
in the best possible way
Create your own style; don’t copy anybody. By copying a person you will
get a feeling that the person whom you copy is superior and as a result you
suffer from inferiority complex.
Find our the Origin; Get a competent counsellor to help you understand
why you do what you do ; Learn the origin of your inferiority complex an
self-doubt feelings and overcome these setbacks.
Emerson said; They conquer who believe they can and he added. “Do the
thing you fear again and again. Practice of faith and confidence will soon kill
your fears and insecurities and it will have no power on you”
Quote from the true charm and power of Vedanta
We say that it is freedom that we are to seek, and that that freedom is
God, it is the same happiness as in everything else; but when man seeks it in
something which is finite, he gets only spark of it. The thief when he steals
gets the same happiness as the man who finds it in God; but the thief gets only
a little spark with a mass of misery. The real happiness is God, Love is God,
freedom is God; and everything that is bondage is not God.
IF HE EXIST
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting seven precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting seven minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste seven minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 7minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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