Criticize Effectively(Recycled story c/f)

Monday, October 06, 2008
Criticize Effectively
When something goes wrong, you are tempted to criticize the person responsible for it. The temptation to label the person as “Careless” is very easy, but criticism needs to be used as correctional tool without any anger whatsoever.
Criticize only in private. To do otherwise would mean lose of face and perhaps canceling the value of the correction.
Preface criticism with kind words. You must acknowledge the person’s previous efforts to do work well.
Your comments should be directed at the act, not at the person.
Do not expect the change immediately.
Avoid overemphasizing mistake again and again. If necessary tell how to do it right.
Ask for cooperation and never demand it. An implied “Let us work this out together.” Is most effective.
It is always better to state clearly what needs improvement.
It is best to bring with a morale booster , end up in a positive fashion showing faith in a person’s willingness and ability to comply. This sets the stage for the acceptance of your suggestion for improvement. K.C Venkatraman
(Courtesy : Inspirational Quote)
Way to Happiness
Keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry. Live simply, expect little , give much. Fill your life with love. Scatter sunshine.
He who loves his enemy
Is a religious persons;
He who serves his enemy
Is a spiritual person;
He who does not have an enemy
Is an enlightened person.
Good humor is one of the best articles of dress one can wear in society.
One should learn to stand steady before trying to run.
Designer of Your Future
If you learn to translate every event of your life into a positive one, you will stop being a prisoner of your past and become designer of your future.

Samrat is a 26 yr old HR professional. On a regular day he 10 am and logs in, going into various online communities and chat-rooms. He leaves office around 6:30pm and logs in as soon as he reaches home. He is online almost as long as he is awake. Samrat is only one of the numerous people who live more in the virtual world than in the real one around them Samrat knows that.” Life is hectic anit’s very difficult for me to visit and call up my friends on a regular basis. It is far easier to keep in touch with them on line, since most them are on line too. But it is true that the virtual world is becoming very real for us. We are moving away from the world around us.” he says
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the ten minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha

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