They conquer Who believe They can

Monday 7.July  2014

They conquer Who believe They can

Self-confidence , the key to success is a trust of faith n your own self. That is being certain that what you are doing is perfectly correct. Here are few tips to help you increase your self-confidence.

Be up-to-date: always have a good amount of information on the topics of general and current interest . if at a gathering. The conversation turns to any of the current topics, you should be able to discuss it intelligently.

And even if you have no information on it, you can still participate passively by listening ot th3 conversation.

Believe in yourself. : Whenever you speak something , do it with self confidence. If you don’t believe that what you say is interesting. How will the audience find it interesting? Speak slowly and in a well modulated tone so that the listener can understand yo clearly. Always keep a good posture. A relaxed erect posture leads you to give clear and well thought out response in a discussion.

Look smart: make sure that you are well dressed first impression is the best impression and people evaluate you first from your appearance.

Make some auto suggestions; even when you are not confident or sure of yourself think that you are very confident. As for example. If you are to introduce a speaker for the first time in your life and you are feeling nervous of public speaking , believe that  you will do it in a perfect way . for example a child secures the 1^st rank in class and the other child gets 12’ rank . then the parents scold the child and tell him.” you are a useless boy, you don’t have brains that is why you cannot come first. When the child hears this over and over. Gradually he starts believing them. As a result he suffers from inferiority complex that may lead to self-defeat.

Implementing all these suggestion will be of great help . Apart from this, you can also give yourself an auto suggestion like “I have full self-confidence and I will introduce the speaker in the beast possible way.”

Think of your past success: Try and remember your achievements as frequently as you can. As for example, how you did well in your examinations or how you managed a very critical situation with great ease.

Do some Daydreaming. Create a mental picture of yourself as a very successful person. Gradually from your conscious mind it will seep into your subconscious mind and before you realise it, you will be totally a different person.

Be optimistic; Whenever a negative thought arises cancel it with a positive thought . as for example if you think you will not be able to give a speech properly; immediately cancel it with a positive thought by thinking that  you will be able to give the speech in the best possible way

Create your own style; don’t copy anybody. By copying a person you will get a feeling that the person whom you copy is superior and as a result you suffer from inferiority complex.

Find our the Origin; Get a competent counsellor to help you understand why you do what you do ; Learn the origin of your inferiority complex an self-doubt feelings and overcome these setbacks.

Emerson said; They conquer who believe they can and he added. “Do the thing you fear again and again. Practice of faith and confidence will soon kill your fears and insecurities and it will have no power on you”

Quote from the true charm and power of Vedanta

We say that it is freedom that we are to seek, and that that freedom is God, it is the same happiness as in everything else; but when man seeks it in something which is finite, he gets only spark of it. The thief when he steals gets the same happiness as the man who finds it in God; but the thief gets only a little spark with a mass of misery. The real happiness is God, Love is God, freedom is God; and everything that is bondage is not God.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting seven precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting seven minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste seven minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 7minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Value –Judging

Monday 20 .June 2014

Value –Judging

The basic cause of most inharmonious human relationships is the tendency to impose our values on others. We want them to live by what we have decided is right , fair good, bad etc. if they do not confirm, we become resentful and angry. You must realize that there is nothing we can do to alter other peoples values, concepts or beliefs if their awareness is not ready to accept change. You are resisting their reality and desiring to see thins. Not as they are, but as you would like them to be. This is the point at which you start value judging.

Nothing can destroy a relationship or break off communications faster than value judging.

In order to stop value-judging , you should encompass the knowledge that all value-judgments of good and bad, right and wrong , fair and unfair are totally unfounded because everyone must inevitably do what they have to. This is all their present awareness will permit-no more , no less.

The scripture remind us that “As a man thinketh in his heart so is he”. You must stop value judging yourself, then you will stop others, and start loving both yourself and others. When you learn to love and appreciate yourself and others . when you learn to love and appreciate yourself, you will no longer be self-demanding, and self-critical and will project the attitude to the outside world.

As soon as you start living others as they are, the feeling will be reciprocal. Others will start loving you. They wont have any other choice. Think about it! Who are the people to whom you are most attracted? They are those you consider your close friends, the people who , no matter what they know about you, never pass value –judgments.

The secret of loving and being loved is to stop value judging –forever!

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

The Vedanta then, practically forms the scriptures of the Hindus and all systems of philosophy that are orthodox have to take it as their foundation. Even the Buddhists and Jains, when it suits their purpose, will quote a passage from the Vedanta as authority. All schools of philosophy in India although the claim to have been based upon the Vedas tool different names for their systems . the lat one, the system of Vyasa, took its stand upon the doctrines of the Vedas more than the previous system did, and made an attempt to harmonize the preceding philosophies such a s the Sankhya and the Naya, with the doctrines of the Vedanta . so it is especially called the Vedanta philosophy; and the Sutras of aphorisms of Vyasa are, in modern India, the basis of the Vedanta philosophy. Again these sutras of Vyayasa have been variously explained by different commentators. In general there are three sorts of commentators? In India how, from their introspection have arisen three system of philosophy and sects. One is the dualistic, or Davaita, a second is the qualified non-dualistic, or Vishishtadvaita, and a third is the non-dualistic, or Advaita. Of these the dualistic and the qualified non-dualistic include the largest number of the Indian people . the non dualistic are the paratively few in number .Now I will try to lay before you the ideas that are contained in all these three sects; but before going on I will make one remark-that these different Vedanta system have one common psychology and that is the psychology of the Sankhya system. The sankya psychology is very mush like the psychologies of the Nayaya and Vaiseshika system , differing only in minor particular

All the vedantiest agree on three points. They believe in God . in the Vedas reveled , and in cycles . We have already considered the Vedas . the belief about cycles is as follows. All matter throughout th universe is the outcome of oine primal matter called Askasha; and all force whatever gravitation, attraction or repulsion or life, is the outcome of one primal force called Prana. Prana acton on Asahsa is creating or projection the universe, At the beginning of cycle Askasha is mtion less, unmaanifested. Then Prana begins to act more and more, creating grosser and grosser froms out of Asahas –plants animals men, stars, and son. After an incalculable time this evolution ceases and involution begins, everything being resolved back through finer and finer forms into the original . Akasha and prana when a new cycle follows. Now there is some thing beyond Akasha and Prana. Both can be resolved into a third thing called Mahal-the Cosmis Mind. This Cosmic Mind does not create Akash and Prana, but changes itself into them.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting seven precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting seven minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste seven minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 7minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Smile At It

Monday 23 June 2014

Smile At It

Doctor “, said patient ,”I must say you kept your promise when you said you d have me walking within two moths.

I am glad to hear that, replied the doctor warmly .

Yes sir, said the patient, “when I got your bill I had to sell my car.

What position does your son play on the football team Mrs. Natahn?’

“I am not sure” replied Mrs Nathan, “but I think he’s one of the drawbacks.”

First golfer; How long have you been playing golf?”

Second two months.

First your terrific for someone whose only been playing for two moths.

Second ; Yes –but I have been learning for ten years.

A farmer persuaded one of his cowhands to buy two raffle tickets, for which the draw was to be half that night at a distance. The next day the cowhand asked the farmer who had won the draw.

Oh, I won the first prize, said the farmer. Aret I lucy?

And who won second prize, farmer? Asked the cowhand. My wife won that, wasn’t she lucky?

Yes, she was and what about third prize?”

Oh, my daughter won that wasn’t she lucky? By the way you haven’t paid me for your tickets yet, have you ?

No replied the cowhand. Am I not lucky?”

A nose woke me up this morning what was that ?

The crack of dawn

Teddy : its no good I cant do it

Instructor: Now then Teddy, you know what Napoleon said . He said , There no such word as cant?

Teddy : I wonder if he ever tired to strike a match on a bar of soap’

Ste[s of Aspiration

To grow a little wiser everyday.

To teach our mind and body to obey,

To shut the door on hat and scorn and pride,

To open it to love, the window wide,

To meet with cheerful hearts what come to us.

To change life’s discords into harmony,

To share some weary workers’ heavenly load,

To guide some straying comrade to the road,

To know that what we have is not our own,

To feel that we are never quite alone,

This shall we pray from day to day,

For then we know this life will grow.

Quote from true charm and power of Vedanta

All these questions arise from utter foolishness, because whatever you are seeing at this moment is God Himself this whole universe and everything in it is God Himself. Are you rally seeing anything else? If you think so, in your evaluation you are making a mistake. You have come to a field where all kinds of pebbles are scattered about. You are in search of diamonds you pick one up-throw it away; pick another up-throw it away. Every pebble you picked up was a diamond. You id not recognize it as such so you just dropped it. Then you said I could not find any diamonds.

You are seeking God, God is present before you in this form , in that form. Everyone is God. That is why Swami Vivekanda said, Do not seek Him , just see Him Rub your eyes , clear your vision; you are not seeing clearly. You do not have to seek Him, because Hs is here; nothing else but God is present here, whether living or non –living , human or subhuman-it is God Himself . what is wanted is that we see Him clearly. Then we find our satisfaction.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting seven precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting seven minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste seven minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 7minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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