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ttachment & Detachment
Monday 9 December 2013
Attachment & Detachment
Detachment is not detaching from the
person whom we care about, but form the agony of involvement.
Attachment is not merely normal feeling of liking people or being concerned about problems. But it is becoming overly involved, sometimes hopelessly entangled.
Over involvement of any sort results in our focusing all our energies on people and problems leaving little for the business of living our own lives.
Whenever we become attached to someone
or something, we become detached from
ourselves. We lose touch with ourselves. we forego our power and ability to
thick, feel act and take care of ourselves. To fill the mind completely with
another human, being or a problem is terrible thing to be caught up in. we can
talk about nothing else, can think of nothing else. We have a problem or a
concern that is not only bothering us , it sis controlling us.
This could be dealt in better way by
being detached,. Detachment does not mean a cold, hostile withdrawal or a
severing or relationships. Nor is it a removal of our love and concern. Each
person is responsible for himself that if he cannot solve problems they are not
ours to solve a problem and then we stop
worrying if we cannot solve a problem . we have done what we could . we learn
to live with or in spite of that problem. We try to live happily focusssing
heroically on what is good in our lives
today and feeling grateful for that
Detachment involves present moment living we allow life t happen instead of forcing and trying to control it. We do not regret over the past and fear about the future. We make most of the day.
Detachment does not mean we do not care it means we learn to love, care and be involved without going crazy. We are able to make good decisions about how to love people and how to solve problems. We become free to care and to love in ways that help others and do not hurt ourselves.
Detachment also involves accepting reality . it requires faith in ourselves, in God in other people and in the destiny.
Rewards from detachment are .great
serenity, a deep sense of peace, the ability to give and receive love and the
freedom to find real solutions to our problems . sometimes detachment even
inspire and frees people around us to begin to solve their problems. We mind
our own craft or business.
We have known people who had to live with serious problems such as alcoholic spouse, a severely handicapped child and a teenager bent on destroying himself through drugs and criminal behavior! They grieved for their losses, they found a way to live their lives not in resignation or despair but with enthusiasm and peace.
By practice detachment can become a habitual response. It is difficult but it will become easier with practice.
When the Lord is pleased
When the Lord, who removes all
difficulties, is pleased . man gets son of a good character, a faithful wife, a pleased
and satisfied employer, loving friend, trustworthy servant. A mind without
worry, a good physique. Secure wealth. And a face shining with the light of
knowledge.
Qoute from True Charm and Power of Vedanta
There is not single heart where Lord Krishna is not present. If you want to have his vision, then get rid of negative passions , such as lust and anger.
O my mind ! You are not aware of the fountain of bliss within you . even a glimpse of that joy will make you wonder struck.
We direct descendants of the Almighty, should not waste our energy for petty selfish ends, but we should learn to work without ulterior motive. Work always bears fruit. Work always creates . it can create freedom or it can create bondage. Both ways are open before us the path which causes suffering and the path which leads to eternal happiness and peace. True sincere souls continue to work , but their work releases them from all bondage.
IF HE EXIST
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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Sunday, December 8, 2013
Winner –Who Thinks He Can

Monday 9 December 2013
Winner –Who Thinks He Can
If you think you are beaten, you are,
If you think you dare not, you don’t
If you like to win, and don’t think you can,
It is almost certain you would not.
If you think you will lose, you are lost.
For in the world we find.
Success being with the fellow’s will it is all in the state of mind.
Thinking big and your deeds will grow.
Think small and you will fall behind.
Think that you can, and you will .
It is all in the state of mind.
If you think you are outclassed , you are.
You have got to think high and rise,
You have got to be sure of yourself,
Before you can win a prize life battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster man,
But sooner or later the man who wins.
Will be the fellow who thinks he can.
More you share, more you receive
People seem to have forgotten how to be with other people. There is more comfort in interacting with a computer . it does not make any demands, there are no expectations. You can turn it on or of depending on your mod. A computer does not have moods and needs that you have to cater to. If the machine does not function to expectation, or you are getting into a dysfunctional relationship with it, you can always get rid of it
The problem is you cannot wish away the people coexisting with you at home and at work. At some point, you have to learn to relate to them. And get along with them. This process is not easy because people have different attitudes. Working styles goals and moods.
Getting along with people means giving something of yourself, being friendly showing concern, and being willing to do things fro others. Getting along is what we need to work on because we affect someone’s life with our thoughts and actions which in turn, affect our life.
Through caring, we are benefited by the reward of others pleasure in being with us.
The process of using the head consists of logic and thinking and the process fo using the heart is based on feelings. Using head and heart, we can show others that we really care. Concern can be shown in different ways, but there are some basics to be covered . be sincere in this Endeavour
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Always treat others as you would like to be treated.
Be interested in the other person. Rather than talking about yourself. Direct the conversation to the other individual and his/her interests.
Remember names . to accomplish this give attention to the other person, so that the name of the other person will get registered in your mind. A person’s name is important to him/her
Don’t take yourself and everybody and everything seriously. Lighten up and let your sense of humour comes through
Be stimulating if being with you makes people feel better people will want to be with you, you personal relations will be excellent.
Sincerely make an attempt to heal every misunderstand that you may have with other individuals . forget grievances and maintain an attitude of goodwill towards everyone.
Perform outgoing acts of friendship , sincere self giving leads to pleasant personal relations.
Resist the temptation to spread gossip in order to fit in, or get ahead.
Be polite and respect the moods of others. You are not the only one who is entitled to have bad mood.
Don’t show off or try to impress your fellow begins . however clever your think you are, people will come to know of it . in short , you determine how others accept you and deal with you it is not the other way around. The magic is the more your share your care. Concern and consideration of other people , the more you receive it, from all around you.
Quote from the true charm and power of Vedanta
O my mind, please listen to the glory of heaven, where the Lord always resides. Where is heaven? All saints have declared in one voice ‘the Kingdom of Heaven is within you.
I am the servant of that Supreme Being who dwells in all hearts jiva the Shiva. Sitting there the Self Luminous Being spreads his lights in all directions.
There is no specific dwelling house for the Lord but in order to help the jiva he has made his temple in the hearts of living beings.
Everyone sings the glory of the heart, because it is dwelling place of God. If you want to interact with Him, then you must turn your mind within.
God has become a prisoner in this body. O my mind, with the help of Scripture and applying your own logic try to release Him from this terrible bondage of the body.
It is by will of God that everything happens in this world, we forget this truth and happily ascribe our name on it.
IF HE EXIST
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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Sunday, December 1, 2013
Self Image
Monday 2 December 2013
Self Image
Everyone likes to succeed in life, in order to succeed, we must develop right attitude. To begin with, any task we wish to complete , must be well begun. How would one say will begun”? it could be with right courage, perspective and above all self-esteem, which could really make a us competent to achieve anything.
Self –image is an important ingredient of self-esteem. It means our own opinion about ourselves’ if we hold a low opinion about ourselves, we stand discouraged before we start off. Any number of external inspiration cannot inspire us further. Remember, here are many hurdles in building up-right attitude about ourselves. Of them all low image plays a negative role and spoils our inter-personal relationship, performance of work and ultimately leading to failure whereas the attitude I can do it builds up our self esteem. Hereby giving us satisfying results. Self-esteem give strong conviction. Develops positive attitudes, inspires us to accept responsibilities , makes us self-inspired, improves our performance in work, thus leading to success in everything we do.
Special qualities of successful people
They are ambitious; successful people have an ambition and are about to recognize their capacity of being good at what they do.
When you see people who were doing better than you , you assume they are better than you . that would mean they are superior and you are inferior . you have feeling of inferiority and these feelings are often translated into feelings of diffidence. You feel you don’t deserve to be successful.
They are courageous; they face the fears that hold most people back. The two biggest enemies of our success is fear and doubt. Eliminating fear and doubt is the key for success.
If you want to develop courage, then simply act courageously when it is called for . When you do something reputedly, you develop a habit.
If you do the thing you fear, your defeating the fear in certain. The ability to attack fear is the mark of the superior person.
They are committed; The top people in every field are completely committed . people who are not committed to what they do lead very empty lives. They believe in themselves they believe n their companies and their customers; believe in the rightness and the goodness of what they re doing.
They are prepared; they review every details in advance . to be in the top requires additional efforts. It requires doing things that the average person is not willing to do. It requires making sacrifices the average person is not willing to make.
They are contiguous learner; They recognize that if they are not continually getting better , they are getting worse. They read, they listen to great persons and they take additional training
Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta
As we unfold our spiritual consciousness, we think and live aright. Whatever approaches us we take at its proper valuation and not as it appears. Nothing can deceive us; therefore we do not labour for what is false and unreal. There are people who work faithfully, but they feel the burden of life because their effort does not bring the desired results why is this? It is because their effort is not controlled by discriminating. It is not directed by a purpose that is definite and single. Single heartedness does not come until we have the higher faculty of discrimination awakened within us; only then do we think consciously and we are not lead away by passing fancies. If something arises that appeals to us and arouses our desire, we do not struggle to gain it without reflecting whether it will bring us a blessing or not.
The delusive power of God has played such a clever game that the King of the Universe forgetting his Real nature has become tiny jiva subject to all types of changes.
IF HE EXIST
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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