Rules On Human Relations.

 

Monday, 17^th June 2013

Rules On Human Relations.

Become genuinely interested in other people . Show them your interest . Talk to them about their interest, their hopes , their life.

Smile, Charlie Schwab said his smile had been worth millions to him, and the Chinese proverb says. “A smile opens more doors then all the efforts you can expand”.

Be a good listener. The most suitable way to make a man feel important is to listen. Unless s salesman listens he wont know which of many features of his product to emphasise.

Talk in terms of other man’s interest. The road to a man’s heat is to talk to him about the thins he prefers most.

Make other people feel important – and do it sincerely . Listen, show your appreciation. Refrain from criticizing or judging.

Golden Words

Make few promises. Always speak the truth, never speak evil of any one. Keep good company or none. Live up to your engagements. Never play a game of chance. Drink no kind of intoxicating liquors. Good  character is above all thins else Keep your own secrets if you have any.

How to develop Pleasing Personality

Most of us want to possess pleasing personality. Here are the tips to acquire this personal trait.

Accept a person as he is and where he is . this attitude takes away hostility. In human relationship, it is not possible to behave pleasantly with one whom you hate. When you accept a person as he is you can relax and feel free with the concerned person. Then he too will be happy and friendly with you.

Be outgoing. Maturity provides you with this important quality . you must be other person centered rather than self-centred. Too much selfishness takes away the friendly nature to go out of the way to help a person in need.

Be a good listener and be interested to listen with patience and sympathy of the other persons

Look for the good in everyone. Think and live positively instead of negatively

Concentrate on other persons achievement. Do remember that there is goo din everyone and sincerely look for it.

Be a person with original ideas and thoughts of peace which help you to possess pleasing personality.

Wear a smile. This is one of the features of good personality . smile at everyone . There is no better way to spread sunshine at all times.

Be enthusiastic. This is the one special quality that goes along with pleasing personality.

Always keep an image of yourself having the qualities of a pleasing person like outgoing nature every available tendency to help and  a smile to greet everyone you meet.

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta.

Some people think that to realise God fully one must rise from dualism to monism,. This is not true in every case. The dualist, by his own method, attains the highest; he wants nothing higher. There are four forms of Mukti or salvation from misery-Salokya, samipya, sarupaya and Sayujyal salokya mukti fulfils the highest ambition of man by enabling him to live in the same place with God. Samipya binrgs the perfected soul very near God in the relation of his most beloved son or servant. Sarupya fills the mind of the perfected on with so much love for his Beloved that he sees, hears, feels, desires and thinks upon none but Him; so much so that his appearance becomes transformed into that of his Beloved. On the other hand Sayujya or kaivalaya merges the perfected soul in Divinity, even the least separation between the two being impossible  when any one of these is realised. Man becomes perfect. Mukti means perfection. None will give it up after getting it, as each kin d of Mukti is perfect in itself . through Bhakti or devotion. Mukti is very easily realised. It gives the  lover the Beloved after finally reaching Him for whom the soul has all the time been panting and struggling. Is there any more work for it to do? In Him it rests. Him it feels to be the highest . this is the final goal preached in the dualistic interpretation of the Vedanta.

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.

Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success

Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.

 

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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