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Monday, August 26, 2013
How to solve problems?
Monday, 26th August 2013
How to solve problems?
Not only do all of us have problems but seem to receive a regular quota of problems. They fall upon us as much as the grains of sand drop through an hourglass. And sometimes they seem to be with much regularity. this continuos regularity with which problems come into our lives, is really good for us, although it may not seem so at that time.
Life without problems would not be worth. Happiness is not the absence of problems and difficulties. Happiness is successfully and effectively solving problems.
It re1uries just as much energy to try to escape from a problems as it does to grapple with it and conquer it. Try to escape and your problem will follow you everywhere Grapple with it and solve it. Then it is gone forever.
Since new problems will always continue to come your way with regularity, it is better that you must solve and dispose of them with equal regularity or they will accumulate and eventually overpower you.
Most mental and emotional illness can be traced in full or in part to one’s having becomes so overpowered by the accumulation of unsolved problems that the person is no longer able to cope with them and try to escape through some form of mental maladjustment.
The same is true of physical illness. Since most of all physical illness is psychosomatic most physical illness can be traced back to the accumulating burdens of unsolved problems.
So by facing each problem directly then plunging into its very centre and actively grappling realistically within. You almost always will produce a solution and you will emerge a stronger and more capable person.
Let us grapple with our problems so aggressively that we put all our will power into our grappling , because “Life pays its highest rewards in fame and fortune to the problems solvers.
The True Charm and Power of Vedanta
If the beginning less Lord, Whose is perfect lordship, knowledge , glory, prosperity, mercy and dispassion, and who is the immutable. Self of all resides in the heart, wielding divine weapons and obstructing the inroads of vice, now can there be any sin? Can darkness lurk in board day-light? But the infinite being does not manifest Himself in evil minded person who strip others of their property, utter rank falsehood, slay animals and are filled with malignant pride begotten of sin. Such vile person burns at hart for others prosperity rail at good men, worship no God and never give in charity although they possess ample. The heart of the depraved is not the throne of God . He who is perverse, basely behaved and is in the habit of subjecting to hardships the best friends, relatives wife son, daughter, father, mother and servants through greed of wealth-know him to be far from being a devotee of the Lord . the man of evil intent given to wicked deeds perpetually addicted to the company of characterless, uncultured chums and fast bound by the series of sins perpetrated day after day. Is certainly not a man, but a beast assuredly he is no lover of Him.
But, if He exists?
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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Sunday, August 18, 2013
Precious Words
Monday, 19th August 2013
Precious Words
Work; Do the work to be done now, and see what you have gained. You feel easy and find that some burden is off your head. Relaxation is yours in the bargain.
Success; There is no short cut to success. Begin working. Targets are not achieved overnight . only regular working pays.
Company ; Keep the company of the intellectuals who are full of ideas. These ideas will touch you , infect you. Seize you and thus do immense good to your personality.
Never too late; it si never too late to correct. You may correct at fifty. Even at sixty. If you survive after mending, this period will be glorious and worthy period of your life.
Shyness; Shyness of yours is a hindrance. It stands between you and achievement. Boldness and self-confidence should be your guidelines for successful living.
How to Achieve Success In life
Most cherished desire fo any person is to achieve success. Success does not come as a ready made product . it is an outcome of a well set goal. Meticulously planned and sustained hard work and ability to solve problems on the way in order to achieve success one has to cross many obstacles that come on the way. It does require long hours of imaginative hard work with ability to utilise the difficult situations to his advantage . it also requires positive outlook, leadership qualities, tact and patience.
To obtain success a person must be able to lead his associates with a welcome gesture “friends dome let us work” instead of saying “go and work”
Success also involves the art of converting adversities into opportunities. One should also be able to turn the tide in his favour at any given point of time. One should also be able to visualise in advance the probable problems and he should have the ability to think of new strategies to solve the problems
One should also do the right thing at a right time like the caption who steer the ship to shore . He should also believe. “Nothing is impossible to achieve with the qualities of a leader”
You can achieve success with these sterling qualities . so do your best and leave the rest to God
Qoute from the True Charm and power of Vedanta
The sense , wise men say, are the horses, and their roads are the sense-objects. The wise call Him the enjoyer when He is united with the body, sense and mind.
One who is always of unrestrained mind and devoid of right understanding , his sense become uncontrollable like the wicked horses of a charioteer.
But who is always of restrained mind and has right understanding his sense are controllable like the good horses of a charioteer.
And who is devoid of proper understanding thoughtless and always impure, never attains that goal, and get into the round of birth with all consequent suffering.
But he who is intelligent, ever pure with the mind controlled, reaches that goal whence none is born again in this painful world.
The man who ahs intelligence for his charioteer and the mind as the well –controlled rein-he attains the End of the journey, that Supreme Place of Vishnu.
But, if He exists
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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Sunday, August 11, 2013
How to Overcome Inferiority Feelings
Monday, 12th August 2013
How to Overcome Inferiority Feelings
“Why do I always make such mistakes? If only I had better education, I would not have made such mistakes” comments like these tell us much about the poor opinion people have of themselves.
Occasionally becoming depressed at one’s shortcomings is normal. But many people feel inferior for too long a time and they go through life with a feeling of worthlessness that spoils their happiness.
A poor opinion of oneself shows in all kinds of subtle ways! A man will work long hours at the office expecting his boss to think of him as worthwhile.
Our a woman will ask how to keep her hair stylish and whether she ought to war a mini or a pantsuit. She is more anxious to please others than herself.
Why do we have such poor opinions of ourselves? Our opinions of ourselves? Our feelings give the answer . when you do something you don’t approve of you feel bad and have a poor opinion of yourself
Or a girl waits humiliatingly long time for a man who makes a habit of being late. Then covers up her rage and smiles sweetly when he finally arrives-and despises herself afterwards.
If you are behaving in a way you approve of you will feel glad . you will have a glow of well-being and you will like yourself.
Some are perfectionists . they need to score 100 percent all the time. I should do everything right is their subconscious thought , so whenever they fall short of their standards. They judge themselves too harshly.
They should try to for amore realistic attitude that is to be gentle towards themselves.
Anyone with such unrealistically high standards has a false idea of what a normal human being really is.
Still other people get a poor opinion of themselves by accepting the standards of those around them.
Accept yourself as different and as a genuine individual. You are unique in your own way.
The first step to get rid of inferiority feelings is to realise that you are no longer a child but a grown up person who has your own abilities and merits.
Self study is the second important step for detecting what is wrong. Becoming acquainted with oneself involves taking a pencil and paper whenever you are
Overcome by a feeling of worthlessness and writing down whatever comes to mind.
Let the pencil freely write what you feel. It appears trivial, irrational embarrassing.
Then put away the paper and days of weeks later, look at what you have written to. See what is improved. The things that appeared meaningless become clear.
Once you become conscious of making self-deprecating comments like these and consciously stop them, your opinion of yourself increases. A better habit is to emphasise your triumphs. Rather than your defeats.
When you do get a better opinion of yourself, everything improves . you feel more confident and self-assured. You gain true self-esteem and the right perspective.
The new self-respect and self-confidence frees you to find your own assets and abilities . and people treat you better, like you better, respect you more because you are happy with yourself and have learnt to respect yourself.
Qoute from the True Charm and power of Vedanta
He is the Lord of all , and all objects are His manifestations. He is the one agent in the universe working through every thing. He is the should of all as well as the power residing in them. He is the first cause that explains every finite cause . To all He is common and to Him alone is due the worship of every noble heart. Realizing Him who is declared as Vasudeva or the Omnipresent . Divinity-one becomes immortal and divine It is absolute , the most high.
The supreme is not attained because of our indulgence in sense enjoyment, because of our rankling doubt regarding the real, doubt regarding the real, and because of our mind. Being preoccupied with other objects, With an absolutely refined mind we can know Him, but we cannot reduce that realisation into language; for the Mind has to be cognized with the mind, and seer by the sight(i.e self –cognition being unique, the experience it yields cannot be described like ordinary objective cognitons) He is the imperishable one, is reached by purifying.
But, if He exists?
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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