Monday, August 31, 2015
Seven secrets for successful
in Love
1. Power of thought. We become what we think about Loving
thoughts create loving impressions and loving relationships. Loving thoughts
will change our attitude about ourselves and others.
2. Power of respect: You cannot love anyone or anything unless
you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To being
to gain self-respect, ask yourself “What do I respect about my self? To gain
respect for others, ask yourself “What do I respect about them?
3. Power of giving: if you want to receive love, all you have
to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is
to give of yourself an unconditionally, Practice acts of kindness. Before committing
to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give you, rather
ask what you will give him. The secret formula of a happy , life long, loving relationship
is t always focus on what you can give instead of what you can receive.
4. Power of friendship: to find true love, you must first find
a true love; you must first find a true friend. Love does into consists of
gazing into each others eyes but rather looking out ward together in the some
direction. To love someone completely you must love him for what he is rather
than what he looks like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds
grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must firs bring love into
friendship
5. Power of communication: When we learn to communicate openly
and honestly , life changes. To love someone is to communicate with each other.
.Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never let
an opportunity pass to praise someone. always leave someone you love with a loving
word.
6.
7. Power of trust. Trust is essential in all loving relationships.
Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person
feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely
unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationships with the person
you love will never end. (Condensed)
Courtesy Internet
Quote from
the True Charm and Power of Vedanta
RELIGION OF LOVE
Just as it is
necessary for a man to go through symbols and ceremonies first, in offer to
arrive at the depth of realization, so we say in India.
‘It is good to be born in a church but bad to die in one’ A sapling when it
becomes a tee, a hedge would be a hindrance. So there is no need to cirticise
and condemn the old forms we forget that in religious there must be growth.
At first we
think of a Personal God, and call Him Creator, Omnipotent, Omniscient, and so
forth. But when love comes. God is only love. The loving worshiper does not
care what God is, because , he wants nothing from Him, says an Indian saint ‘I
am no beggar!’
Here are some of
the systems founded on love (1) Shanta, common peaceful love with such thoughts
as those of fatherhood and help; (20 Dasya, the ideal of service, God as master
of general or sovereign, giving punishments and rewards; (3) Vatsays, God as
mother or child, In India the mother never punished. In each of these stages,
the worshipper forms and ideal of God and follows. It . Then (4) Sakhya, God as
friend. There is no fear here . there is also the feeling of equality and familiarity.
There are some Hindus who worship God as friend and playmate. Next comes (5) Madhura,
sweetest love, the love of husband and wife . of this St Teresa and the ecstatic
saints hat been examples
Amongst the Persians.
God has been looked upon as the wife, amongst the Hindus as the husband. We ma
recall the great queen Mira Bai. Who peahced that the Divine Spouse was all .
Some carry this to such an extreme that to call God ‘mighty’ or ‘father’ seems
to them blasphemy. The language of the worship is erotic , \Some even use that
of illicit passion. To this cycle belongs the story of Krishna
and his Gopi-girls. All this probably seems to you to entail great degeneration
on the worshipper. And so it does . yet many great saints have been developed
by it. And no human institution is beyond abuse. Would you cook nothing because
there are beggars? Would you possess nothing because there are thieves? O beloved,
one kiss of Thy lips, once tasted , hath mad me mad!
The fruit of
this idea is that one can no longer belong to any sect, or endure ceremonist. Religion
in India
culminates in freedom. But even this comes to be given up, and al is love, for
love’s same.
(7) Last of all
comes love without distinction, the Self. There is a Persian poem that tells
how a lover came to the door of his beloved, and knocked. She asked. Who art
thou? And he replied. ‘I am so and so they beloved! And she answered only ‘God!
I know one such! But when she had asked for the fourth time, he said, I am thyself,
O my beloved, therefore open thou to me! And the door was opened.
A great saint
said, using the language of a girl, describing love. Four eyes met. There were changes
in two souls. And now I cannot tell whether he is a man and I a woman, or he is
a woman and I a man. This only I remember, two souls were . Love comes, and
there was one.
In the highest love,
union is only of the spirit. All love of any other kind is fast evanescent. Only
the spiritual lasts, and this grows. Courtesy Bhakti or devotion
But, if He
exists?
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening
for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him.
One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something,
which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does
not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am
afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes
rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I
derive 4m.
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