How to remain happy in married life?

Monday-May 16- 2011
How to remain happy in married life?
Everyone seeks happiness after getting married. But how?
Thee are only two kinds of people-giver’ and ‘takers’. In married life, you would better both be givers. That is the way of co-operation way of sharing, way of putting your spouse first and way of helpfulness in every situation.
Early in the morning both spouses should try to remain calm and cool. No discussions or arguments in the early morning hours. One way to cultivate this habit is to move to a corner, relax, mediate and observe silence for few minutes. Nothing like mentally repeating your prayers and studying Scriptures.
You must forgive and forget, Keep on dong it even if you have to repeat this process many times during the day. When you leave home in the morning, be on your very best and maintain harmonious behavior. Silence is the best answer, if of you is provoked or uses unkind words.
On returning home, enquire and take interest in one another activity during the day.
Prove this by your genuine appreciation and smile. Do not give way to anger and imitation. Try to control yourself under all conditions.
Listen to your spouse attentively and sympathetically. Even at your place of work. If you get a telephone call from your spouse, be polite and courteous, in spite of your busy schedule. Peace generate at home will give you peace of mind all day long.
Do not shout or talk too loudly Make use of “Thank You”, “Well done”, “you have done a good job”, and “I am sorry”, as often as is necessary . Be generous in your praise and compliments. Keep radiating silently thoughts of love.
Never speak ill of the parents or relatives of your spouse. Never speak to friends or outsiders about your internal problems or secrets.
Lead a simple life, Entertain positive thoughts of Love, Peace , Service and Harmony, Cultivate a common hobby, waking , playing , reading, writing, painting, worshiping,. Service in a social or cultural organization that fits to your temperament.
Entertain friends at home from time to time. Be a part of the community. Be cheerful and smile away your problems.
Business becomes harmonious
When we separate the word BUSINESS into letter B-U-S-I-N-E-S-S , we find that U and I are in it. In fact , if U and I were not in BUSINESS it would not be BUSINESS.
Further , we found that U comes before I in Business and the U is silent….. it is to be seen not heard.
When the interests of U and I , are combined properly in BUSINESS . it becomes harmonious and altogether profitable.
He most lives who thinks most, feels the noblest, acts the best.
How to analyze a problem?
Write answer to the following questions:
1: What is the problem?
2: What are the causes of the problem?
3: What are the possible solutions?
Ans: Pick the best possible solution; Act, once the decision is made.
Pledge
We stand as a family. Bound to each other with love and respect we serve as an army. Courageous and disciplined, Eveready to fight against all low tendencies and false values within us, we live honestly. We lead a noble life of sacrifice and service producing more than what we consume and giving more than what we take. We seek the Lord’s Grace and Blessing flow through us to the world around us. We believed that the service to our country is service to the Lord and devotion to the people is the devotion to the Supreme Self. We know our responsibilities give us the ability and courage to fulfill them.

Quotes form the Essence of Gita
As I said earlier, there is no real difference between a true followers of the path of knowledge and a true follower of the path of devotion. A study of the scriptures shows us that from among those who were known to be true followers of the path of knowledge; a pure stream of devotion has flowed and made the world pure and blessed. Again, those who were recognized as true devotees have goaded us all onto the path of equanimity by spreading the light of knowledge.
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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