Personality

Monday 7 March-2011
Personality
As we are all aware personality is referred to one’s traits both negative and positive . you are made of liabilities and assets You have within you the desire to succeed, the desire for self fulfillment and the desire to be happy.
When you look into the mirror sometimes you could see a smiling face and yet sometimes a frowning one. You find within yourself quit opposing traits your negative side is a labiality which is needs to be corrected, your positive traits are your assets. No one else can change your personality , unless you desire it.
To cultivate a better personality.
Do one thing at a time, aim at one goal at a time.
Live in the present
Don’t forget to learn valuable lessons from yesterday’s mistakes.
Aim at self-improvement.
Subject yourself to an honest self-appraisal.
Don’t be prejudiced about others; Learn to listen and listen to learn.
Don’t give up any task until you finish it. If you make a mistake try again.
Exercise your imagination and creative power to achieve success.
Don’t forget the saying Personality is to a man what perfume is to a flower.
Law is necessary. But there are certain cases where the law of conscience overrules the written law.
How Determined Are you?
Life is not all smooth sailing. There are times when we run into rough weather and find ourselves having to cope with difficult people and situations.
Determinations enables us to do this successfully. It keeps us trying and brings us through the ups and downs of life.
Try this test and see how determined you are Answer Yes or No to the question before turning to the key.
1. Do you get so busy that you forget the time or the fat that you are tired?
2. Are you so occupied that you do not bother about other people and what they think?
3. Is it extremely difficult for anybody to discourage you once you get going?
4. would you stick to something if others gave up?
5. Would you stick to it if you knew people disapproved it?
6. can you say ‘no’ and stick to it in the face of criticism?
7. Would you stand by your decision and not allow other people , including those closest to you , to change it?
8. do you make a habit of finishing jobs even when the turn out to be difficult and tedious?
9. Do you like competing with people at games and sports?
10. Is it automatic to try again even when you have failure?
11. Are difficulties , problems and setbacks a challenge spurring you to further efforts?
12. do you hate being defeated by anyone or anything?
13. Have you a very clear and definite idea of what you want to do with your life?
14. Do you have a definite plan of how to achieve it?
15. Are you prepared to sacrifice part of your leisure to achieve it? Check Key score below
Key-Count five marks for every YES. a score of 70 and over is good. 60 to 70 is satisfactory. 50 to 60 may be counted fair but under 50 is not satisfactory
Give with Love and Compassion
Charity need not only be monetary. It can be a giving of our time, talent, knowledge, love or compassion. It is said that the great Ramanujacharya’s Gurur gave him the mantra ‘Sreemate narayanaya Namah” saying “ If you chant this with sincerity and faith you will go to heaven. I do not give this mantra to everyone because they are not qualified. “Sir Ramanujaacharya asked. “What will happen if I give it to them?’ The Guru said. “You will go to hell”. As the story goes. Ramanujacharya went straight to the village, called lots of people together and asked them to chant the mantra. When the Guru heard of this , he took him to task. Ramanujachaya replied. “I know I will go to hell, but all those who are chanting will go to heaven. So what does it matter?” That is genuine giving , out of love and compassion.

Quote from The Essence of the Gita
In the second chapter of the Gita , Sri Krishna not only taught Self-knowledge, he also tired to persuade Arjuna in an ordinary way. Sri Krishna told him, “You will lose your reputation. People will call you a coward and insult you. It is better to die rather than to face all this. “Failing to realize the value of this , people often become critical and say, ‘What rubbish has Sri Krishna out of fear of public criticism?” No, it does not mean that. If we try to understand properly, we shall see that even these words of Krishna have deep import.
We see that those who are adored by people have some special quality in them. If they have no quality worth the name, the name, the adoration of the masses doesn’t last long. Good work always elicits praise from people in general, though they may not understand clearly the worker’s noble attitude behind it. Even illiterate ignorant people can judge for themselves the good and bad qualities of a person. This is because God dwells in all beings , and it is due to His power that every person has the natural capacity to distinguish between good and evil.
Knowledge is a treasure , but practice is the key to it.


I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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