Three Obstacles To Success

Monday 24–May- 2010
Three Obstacles To Success
Most people would like more out of life than they already have. Yet, most of them will never achieve them because they are easily discouraged.
Just think of all the things you have ever wanted to accomplish in your life and why you did not accomplish them. You would probably say you did not given hard enough or you never panned them properly. In fact you are discouraged by three things from being successful than anything else. They are:
Fear: Fear of failure is the biggest obstacle to our success. Fear is negative feeling. It paralyzes us. Most people don’t succeed because they are afraid to fail. They are so afraid to fail, they don’t even take chance; which creates a vicious cycle since the only time we really fail is when we stop taking chances. Do you ever realize that if you keep working hard day after day you are giving yourself an opportunity to be successful to be best? It is only when you stop, you keep away from the opportunity you ever had to be successful.
Others: This is a big obstacle to success. Others are always ready, willing to tell us “It cannot be done”, and stop us from doing what we want to do in our lives and careers. They would like you to think that they are acting in your best interest, but they are not. In fact they are acting in there own best interest. There are too many people who want to discourage you so that you would no the more successful than they are. The next time one of them tell you. “it cannot be done”, tell them, “You are right, you cannot do it, but I can”.
Habits :Bad habits constantly stop us to reach our goal. The habit of postponement , laziness; not writing things down and many others. The problem with bad habits is not that we have them; it is how we try to break them habits are addictions (drinking, drugs, gambling). Addictions have to be stopped stage by stage. After all you did not acquire bad habits overnight. What makes you think that you can change them overnight? Bad habits must be changed a little bit at a time. Mark out one day a week, you would not postpone; make one more sales call than you normally do; wake up five minutes earlier every day.
Do it for a month, then next month do a little more. There are no overnight successes. Success is a long journey over a road that has many roadblocks; it is the people that go through these roadblocks who become successful.
Live with Superiors
A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire; not too near, lest he burns; not too far off, lest he freezes.
A single Pure Thought
A single person does not make a family; a single family does not make a community, a single community does not make the world; a single stick does not make a bundle; a single hand does not make a service; a single flower does not make a garland; but, a single pure thought does make a difference.
Heaven On Earth
Every morning is a fresh beginning. Today is a new day. I have lived all my life up to this moment to come to this day . I shall make each moment of this day a heaven on Earth.
What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us, what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.
Quote from true religion always help
Life is not a bed of roses, as we all know Calamities, adversities, death, disease and suffering visit everybody. Those who do not have the inner strength of endurance born of the practice of spiritual discipline, cannot easily stand such impacts. Sometimes people are driven out their minds in such situations.
Bhishma says in the Mahabharata
When one’s wealth is lost, or one’s wife or son father is dead, one certainly says to oneself, alas, it is a great sorrow! But then one should with the help of mediation endevour to kill that grief.
Yet , is the practice of mediation such an easy affair that when someone dies at home, you just rise to superconsciousness and forget all about it? It requires a life long practice of mediation for it to be found helpful in times of calamity. Religion helps us to remain, as the Gita says , unperturbed in misery, and unelated in happiness.
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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