Monday, 05 November 2018
The Secret of Personality
Now
the one thing that all normal people possess is the ability to talk. And it’s
mainly by the way our talk that otters judge your personality. I’m not
referring to your diction grammar and tone, although these things are important.
No, I mean, essentially what you say. Robert Louis Stevenson said that talk is
our chief business in this world, it costs nothing is money; it is all profit:
it completes our education, founds and fosters our friendships, and can be
enjoyed at any age and in almost every state of health. It is true, but there
is another saying that goes; “The thing most frequently opened by mistakes is
the human mouth” I think most of us –except professional critics ; of
course-would be much better off if we followed this advice: if you can’t say
nothing! It is also easier to criticise than to be right or help-so most of us
do it; You’ll improve your personality immediately if you stop it. 
Another
method for improving your personality is to stop talking about your favourite
subject-You-so much Talk about the other person, and he or she will love you
for it. Learn also to listen attentively (even if you’ve heard it before) again
looking into the speaker’s eyes. Listen well, and you’ll be given credit for speaking
well. And if you are a good listener, you will talk better.
Don’t
be afraid to talk. Erasmus said that by speaking men learn to speak. Just try
to take a middle ground and give the others person a chance, too. The worst
thing you can ever do is to a appear bored when someone is talking to you . Remember
this; you’re really never bored with others-or anything for that matter-you are
bored only with yourself.
Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta
Sahaja Is The Key
The Speaking Tree | Edit Page, Lifestyle |
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By KS RAM
Sahaja
means spontaneous or innate. In the Ramcharitmanas, Parvati blesses Sita with
the promise of a husband who would be dark, handsome and sahaja. In Bengal, a
cult began after poet Chandidas emphasised sahaja in life. The cult, however,
narrowed the importance of sahaja, so that Chandidas had to cry out: Sahaja,
sahaja, everyone speaks of sahaja,/ But who knows what sahaja means?
The
cosmos may be thought of as a system of macro dynamics. Components in the
cosmos, including individual human beings, represent systems of micro dynamics.
This relates to will. There is personal will of an individual, and the Cosmic
Will at large. The personal will may either align itself to the Cosmic Will, or
it may act counter to it, resulting in, correspondingly, peace or strife in
life. Sahaja is to joyously subject the personal will to the Cosmic Will.
Sahaja
is not idleness. Idleness is desire-driven: It is willful resistance to the
natural course of life; it is not to be doing what should be done. Sahaja is
the opposite of this. It is to do what has to be done, without the interference
of personal will and desire. Excited by the ego, we often turn impatient.
Sahaja is guided by patience. It involves never striving to hurry up events or
achievements in life. Atiny seed sprouts and gradually grows into a tree full
of blossoms and fruits. Did the tree contrive its growth or hurry it up? Its
growth was sahaja. So it is with all other components in the cosmos. So must it
be with man.
But, if He exists?
I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who
spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this,
his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was
wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into
believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am
wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your
entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why
should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.
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