Tips for good Human relations

Monday 3 February 2014

Tips  for good Human relations

As positive steps to better your relations with others , keep in mind the following points in human relations;

1.     Speak gently to people . Be skilful in getting your ideas across . there is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of greeting.

2.     Listen attentively and patiently.

3.     Smile at people . there is power in a smile. What sunshine is to flowers, a smile is to humanity.

4.     Call people by name. the sweetest music to anyone’s ears is the sound of his/her own name

5.     Be genuinely interested in the other person and his/her problems.

6.     . be generous with praise, reserved with flattery, cautious with criticism.

7.     Respect others’ personality and individuality.

8.     Be thoughtful of the opinions of others there are three sides to a controversy-your, the other fellow’s and the right side

9.     Be alert to give service. What counts in life is what we do for others. Human relations are caring and sharing . attention and compassion play a big role.

Tips for happiness

Live a simple life. Be moderate in your habits. Avoid self seeking and selfishness. Make simplicity the keynote of your daily plans . simple things are best.

Spend less then you earn. This may be difficult but it pays big dividends. Keep out of debt. Cultivate saving habit, avoid wasting money.

Think constructively. Train yourself to think clearly and accurately. Store your mind with useful thoughts. Learn to control your mind.

Resist the common tendency to want things your own way. Try to see the other person’s point of view.

Be grateful; begin the day with gratitude for your opportunities and blessings. Be glad for the privilege of life and work. Rule your moods. Cultivate a mental attitude of peace and goodwill.

Give generously. There is no greater joy in life than to render happiness to others by means of intelligent giving.

Work with right motives. The highest purpose of your life should be to grow in spiritual grace and power

Be interested in others. Direct your mind from self-centredness. In the degree that you give, serve, and help, you will experience the by product of happiness.

Live in daylight compartment. This means living one day at a time.  Concentrate on your immediate task. Make the most of today for it is all you have.

Have a hobby . nature study, gardening , music, stamp collecting , foreign language books, photography, social service, public speaking , travel authorship are samples. Cultivate a hobby to which you can trun fo diversion and relaxation.

Keep close with God True and enduring happiness depends on close alliance with Him.  It is your privilege to share His thoughts for your spiritual nourishment, and to have a constant assurance of Divine protection and guidance.

Both science and religion are interdependent.

The speed with which corruption charges decorate the front page of newspapers all over the world clearly indicates that we go backward in “spiritual life” with the advancement of science.

“Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely’ has become true.

Religion without science is superstitious and science without religion is foolish. But in practice in the name of scientific development we are digging religion in the graveyard. Let us not forget that religion is for our” standard of life” but science can increase only our “standard of living”

The sad paradox of scientific development is that scientific suppression has started replacing religious superstition. Religion begins where science ends and both are dependent on each other.

Quote from the true charm and power of Vedanta

Of the Rudras I am Sankara, of the Yakshas and Rakshasas I am Kubera, of the Vauses, I am Fire, and among mountains I am Meru. 

Know that I am Brihaspati, the foremost among priests. O Partha, of army leader I am Skanda, of natural reveries I am ocean.

Of the great sages I am Bhrigu of words I am the monosyllable (Om) , of sacrifices I am the Japa sacrifice, of immovables I am the Himalays.

Of all trees, I am the Ashvattha (peepul tree) of divine sages I am narada of Gandharvas I am Chitratha , and amongst perfect sould I am the saint Kapila.

Of houses  know Me to be Uchchihshravas bron of (the churning for) nectar, of lroldy elephants Airavata, and amongst men the king.

Of weapons I am the hunderbolt, of cows I am the Kamdhenu, I am the productive passion, and of poisonous serpents I am Vasuki.

Among non-posionous snakes I am ananta, of aquatic bings I am Varuna, of the meanes I am aryaman, of regulators I am Yama.

Of demons I am Prahlada, of reconkers, I am time, among beast I am the lion, and among birds I am garuda.

I am the wind among those who move fast, of wielders of weapons I am Rama , among fish I am the Makara, of rivers I am the Ganga.

Of creation I am the beginning, the end, as also the middle, O Arjuna,; of science I am metaphysics, and I am the constructive reasoning of the controversialists.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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