Failure –A stepping stone to success

Monday 30-August 2010
Failure –A stepping stone to success
Just as light is followed by darkness failure and success follow one another . they represent the two sides of the same coin. Just as success in reaching our goal should not make us proud, an attitude of hopelessness should be given up in the wake of failure because failure is a stepping stone to success.
It sis widely said that diamond cannot be polished without friction and a man cannot be made perfect without trials. Lives of all great man cannot be made perfect without trials. Lives of all great men remind us that fame and glory are gained only by overcoming failures and setbacks. Failure should be looked upon as the lubricating oil that drives the machinery of human action to greater heights.
To feel proud at success and to remain sorrowful at failure are the indications of our inability to control our mind. Calmness and a sense of understanding are necessary in both the conditions.
Success and glory never merit the lazy. In the wake of failure, think in a positive way and have faith in yourself and success will be yours.
In short failure is not final and success is not everlasting. so always give your best success will be there at your doorsteps.
Recognize your achievements.
Even the most successful mean might have made some mistake on there way to fame . however , what sets these men apart, is that they were so busy getting ahead that they had not tome to was on self-pity or regret. They did not even spend their energy devising ways of avoiding more pitfalls. Instead , they continued boldly, trying again and again regardless of the risks involved.
For example;
Consider, what happens to the driver of a car, who watches on the ditches he wants to avoid, instead of keeping his eye on his road? The answer is-he lands up in a ditch!
Better alternative;
Be concerned with what you want, rather than what you do not want! By all means admit your mistakes but this should only indicate a willingness to go ahead and not to waste your precious time thinking about your past mistakes.
Concentrate instead, on your achievements which you did well in the past and which give you a feeling of pride!
Be a winner;
It is false modesty that you must admit failures. On the other hand. You might as well admit your achievements.
And in recognizing you achievements, you will meet, a most interesting and increasingly successful stranger, that is You!
Rich without money
There are some people who carry their wealth with them who are rich without money. They do not need palatial homes or large bank accounts. They do not need to buy admission to society-everybody love them. They are welcome everywhere because they have that which money cannot buy –a genial, helpful, sunny, cheerful disposition.
Quote from Bhagavad-Gita
That action whish is undertaken through delusion, without regard to consequence, loss , hurtfulness, and capacity , is declared to be Tamasika.

I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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