Love for other is the golden key to Happiness.

 

Monday, 10-September- 2012

Love for other is the golden key to Happiness.

The world is full of keys-there must be millions everywhere and people guard them like their lives and handle them with care-for it you lose your key! Well, that’s a real calamity you might be locked out of your home-and then where would you be? Look at a street of houses-there are keys to all the door…And all our problems are like doors-each one has got a key. Some work or deed will meet the case. If only we could see, the key to every situation is somewhere about –if we could rid our  minds of prejudice and fear and  doubt. Determination will unlock the doorway of success-and love for others is the golden key to Happiness.

Rules For Parents To Deal With Married Children

Don’t give advice unless asked for …. Remember they are married now!

Don’t parent them anymore, 30 years are enough. Let their spouses take care of them.

Remember your sons or daughters are their spouses now and there fore they better adjust to the ways, means, and tastes of their spouses.

Remember  they have their full life to live their own way… if you agree bless them, otherwise keep quiet.

Don’t interfere in their personal and family affairs…. Let them settle themselves.

Appreciate their every little achievement-in cooking , hobbies , etc.

If you have problems , talk to your sons of daughters , not to their spouses.

At parties, festivals, and ceremonies treat them like close friends rather than- ‘in-laws’.

About their families, don’t every ask, comment or criticize.

Grand children are their creation, so take care of them if asked for.

So if they break things , mi behave, eat irregularly, advice them as a friend.

Finally, remember you may need them later in life!

I do not hesitate to lie!

Once a to be groom found himself in a tight corner while answering a barrage of questions about his personal history by the girl’s father. Finally in an effort to emerge out successfully he said. “Look sir, I don’t smoke , drink or have any desire for opium, snuff drug etc.”

The interested father asked him naturally in an inquisitive manner. “And you don’t have any weakness in yourself”?

“Of course, I am also a human being “ the to be groom said in frustration. “I do not hesitate to lie when necessary.”

 

Mystery of God

Every blade of Grass, and every INSECT, ANT  and Golden BEE. All so marvellously known their path… they bear witness to the MYSTRY OF GOD. – Ancient Wisdom

Path of Love

One meets with two classes of spiritual aspirants. One of them resembles the young of a monkey and the other may be likened to a kitten. The young one of the monkey strongly clasps its mother while the young one of the cat cannot do so, but mews piteously, staying wherever it is placed by her. If the young monkey lets go the hold on its mother, it falls down end gets hurt. This is because it has to depend upon its own strength. But the kitten runs no such  risk, for the mother herself carries it about from place to place. Similarly , the aspirant who follows the pat of knowledge or the path of selfless work depends upon his won effort to attain salvation. On the other hand, the aspirant who follows the path of Love knows that the Lord is the disposer of everything , so with perfect confidence he resigns himself entirely to His mercy. The former is like the young of a monkey and the latter like the kitten.

 

Quote from True Charm and Power of Vedanta.

To those workers who have a philosophical bent of mind, the advice of the Gita is that they should remember that they are the Self; that it is the senses which work, impelled by past tendencies and desires. While the Self; that it is the senses which work, impelled by past tendencies and desires; while the Self which is there inner being. Their real existence, is free from all earthly contact, and transcends everything material., the impli9cation of this sublime and pregnant idea is at first caught only by the imagination; but by constantly dwelling on it, while he works, the imagination of the Karma Yogi, will at last give place in experience and he will realise the Self.

It will thus be seen that there are no watertight compartments among the different Yogas, Krama , Bhakti, and Janana may , and often do commingle with one another in the course of spiritual practice, only the temperament of the aspirant will determine which of the three is to have a dominant influence in his life.

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Maintain a Cheerful Attitude

Monday 25-January 2010
Maintain a Cheerful Attitude
Most of the people do not know secret of keeping youthful. Of the many suggestions made by doctors a 7 hour sleep stands as the most important. People who complain sleeplessness are sedentary workers. They sit in their office; they sit hours on end before their TV or radio; they take little exercise. Instead of talking up to a friend, they talk to him over the phone. At the end of the day, they are not sufficiently tired to earn their sleep.
People who do sedentary jobs sitting in the workplace, need regular exercise. hobbies which are more than a mere pastime also help in the relaxation of mind and muscles.
People who wished to break monotony and boredom, should do a wide variety of household chore. They should do little of each to break the boredom.
Anger, jealousy, hatred are emotions which disturb sleep. Friendship, cheer, good actions give mental satisfaction and sleep. Anyone can stay young by getting inspiration from persons who have remained creative all their live.
Men and woman have to maintain a cheerful attitude. They are as young as their faith, as old as their doubt, as young as their self-confidence, as old as their fear, as young as their hope, as old as their hopelessness. So long as their heart receives messages of beauty, cheer, and courage from fellow beings and from the supreme power so long as are they young and youthful.
Stay young by continuing to grow with a cheerful attitude. Courtesy Wisdom
Nobel achievements of ancestors.
A people that takes no pride in the noble achievements of remote ancestors will never achieve anything to e remembered with pride by remote posterity.
Knowledge with Common sense is Wisdom
‘Knowledge, without common sense,’ says Lee, ‘is folly; without method, it is waste; without kindness , it is fanaticism; without religion, it is death. But with common sense, it is wisdom; with method, it is power; with charity, it is goodness; with religion, it is virtue, life and peace. –Farrar
Success is not a station you arrive at but a manner of traveling
The Fountain
Waves rise and waves fall
Light supersedes darkness
Calm and storm
Creation and destruction
Birth and death
This is the play of nature.
Be the witness of this game
Dwell in thy immortal life
Act thy part bereft of the dual sense
Let life flow from the fountain
The one Universal Truth
In free and blissful course
Self-absorbed and self-revealed.
Jokes
Host: Come right into the house. Don’t mind the dog.
Visitor; doesn’t he bite?
Host; That’s what I want to find out. I just bought him this morning.

Quote from Gita
In the beginning we ordinary people are attracted by the uplifting manner of the devotees whose love for God has made their lives holy. W long to become like them. This attachment is similar to the attachment one feels for material objects. But the difference is that this attachment takes us toward God because it is directed to a higher ideal. That is why the sage Narada and other teachers have said that desire , greed, anger etc. are to be considered enemies only so long as they are provoked by worldly objects but once their direction is changed, they themselves become aids to God realization.
For the fulfillment of any desire, we would do well to call upon God first, because only He has the power to fulfill all our desires. We may be in the habit of prying to Him with a mind full of desires, but in the process once we fall in love with Him, then we cannot escape any more! Our love with desire gradually change to love without desire. Once this desireless love takes hold of us, there is no fear of a fall. The sage Sandilya characterizes this love in these words;” An intense attachment to God is love-and that si the highest devotion.” The great devotee Prhlada said once.
O Lord, may I think of You with that strong love which the ignorant cherish for the things of the world, and may that love never cease to abide in my heart.’
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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Home –A Center of Love And Understating

Monday 11-January 2010

Home is a centre for understanding, leading to success, health and happiness, Healthy growth of every member of a family depends on mutual understanding tolerance and avoidance of friction.
All of us seek happiness but most of us do not realize that home is the centre to remain happy and make others happy. Effective relationship with every member of the family is the result of peaceful environment maintained through constant dialogue, necessary correction in understanding whenever needed.
If your family is moving in the right direction, you would be able to perform your work peacefully and gracefully. That is the inseparable relationship between life at home and work at office. When the mind is disturbed at home, the work at office suffers and vice versa. It is , therefore, very important to maintain peaceful atmosphere both at home and office. One has to work effectively to promote healthy culture at both places.
It is better for the family members to get together once a day preferably at the same time. It helps very much, if the members of the family eat together or pray together once a day. Is it not true that a family which prays together stays together?
Sparing time for children is as important as any other aspect of life. Growing children, particularly teenagers, do need guidance and love. They should also be carefully about the friends they make, the movies they see and the books they read. Elders should take them into confidence, understand their problems and try to solve them. With love and compassion. They do need guidance to avoid possible pitfalls or mistakes leading to serious results. They will help youngsters to think, understand and lead life in the right direction.
Between husband and wife., there should be a loyal and dependable understanding. Each one should endeavour to sustain the healthy values and principles of his or her spouse leading to peace progress and success. It is said that happy family is the result of loving heart and attitude of tolerance. This relationship must be nurtured at all stages of life. Both the spouses must communicate with each other and solve problems mutually. They have to complete the task cheerfully maintaining the dignity , discipline in the family.
One has to clearly explain his or her position with love and clarity. With willingness to communicate, understand the viewpoint of the spouse, any problem can be solved in a short time. One has to take care of the physical, mental and social needs of the spouse. It is also necessary to sustain values and respect will surely lead to purposeful, peaceful, healthy and happy environment at home and office. (Courtesy Wisdom)
Imitation is human, creation is Divine-
Imagination is more important than knowledge
A merry heart maekth a cheerful countenance.
Education
Education is not how much you have committed to memory, or even how much you know. It is being able to differentiate between what you do know and what you don’t
Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none.
Doing good to others is not a duty. It is a joy for it increases your own health and happiness.
It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.
Balance Sheet of Our Life
Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our prejudiced Views are our Liabilities
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets.
Heart is our Current Asset.
Soul is our Fixed Asset.
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
Thinking is our Current Account
Achievements are our Capital
Character and Morals , our Stock in –Trade
Friends are our General Reserves.
Values and Behaviour are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned Love is our Dividend
Children are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands/Patents
Knowledge is our Investment
Experience is our Premium Account.
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award
Quote from Gita
It is said that Sri Krishna gave to Duryodhas eleven units of his army before the battle started. Duryadhana thought, “ I could not get Sri Krishna on my side. Well , what does it matter? His energy cannot equal the energy of eleven army units!” But just the opposite proved to be true in the battlefield. Sri Krishna’s energy and perseverance, his infinitely resourceful power in moments of crisis, his fiery and energizing words in the darkness of utter dependency, and his uncommon cheerfulness and tranquil mind in the shadow of death and in the midst of the defeat of his own people-al these qualities made him as powerful as al the great warriors from both sides put together what to speak of eleven of his own army units!
George Harrison
I think people who can truly live a life in music are telling the world . “you can have my love, you can have my smiles. Forget the bad pars, you don’t need them. Just take the music, the goodness, because It’s the very best, and it’s the part I give”.
I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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HOW TO BE LESS TIRED

HOW TO BE LESS TIRED
Much of the tiredness we complain of originates from the mind . For example, there is the tendency to think about jobs we have to do or about some problem which is worrying us. We become tired by thinking about tit before any indication of the possible problem.
Instead of worried thinking, select what is essential and necessary . Think constructively . Have a definite programme so that you know before you start in what order you want to do things.
Do tackle worries, one at a time . So often we get tired be cause we waste our energy shifting from one thing to another never finishing anything properly.
We became tired when we dislike and envy other people. If you are jealous of your neighbor, you are not likely to keep good relations with him. You fail to enjoy what you have, thinking only of what somebody else has and perhaps trying to get a similar thing.
Anger , enmity and living in a spirit of competition with other people, stimulate frustration. That state of continuous dissatisfaction with ourselves make us feel tired most of the time.
We become tired when we insist on trying to do too much in the available time. By straining to do more and more in less and less time we become increasingly tired. If you live in a chronic state or rush-and-hurry, we are likely to make mistakes or miss something important.
Make it one of your rule snot to push yourself too hard. Aim at being sensible and reasonable with yourself so that you make life flow as easily and pleasantly as possible. That is the way to be happier and less tired.
(Culled from “Psychological Magazine”)
Quote from Essence of Gita
We have seen that body consciousness and the “unripe-I” go away completely at the highest level of devotion. Now let us see how for this is true for the seeker of knowledge. The knowledge –seeker says that is the real “I”? the real “I” is beyond the body, mind and everything. It is the witness of all these. It remains unchanged in all states . It neither grows nor diminishes. The real “I” dowels to all This “unripe-I” of ours is just a part of the “ripe-I” or the real “I” . The “unripe-I” comes from eh real “I”. the goal so the knowledge-seeker is to always remain aware of the real “I”, and to merge the ‘unripe-I”, into the real “I”.
It is clear then that the devotee’s state of “absorption” and the knowledge-seeker’s “merger” with the real “I” are one and the same. Both the devotee and the seeker of knowledge want t drown the “unripe-I” . Hanuman was once asked, “How do you mediate on Sri Rama?’ He replied “When my mind is connected with the body and senses, I see that .He is my master and I am the servant. When I become aware of myself as on individual soul, I see that He is the whole and I am a part of Him. He is like the sun and I am jut one of the many rays of the sun. when my mind transcends all limitations in the super conscious state, I see that He and I are one.”
Today is yesterday’s pupil

I drive joy
There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha
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How to solve a problem

Monday, 28 ,September-2009-
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How to solve a problem
1. Do not keep the problem constantly within the focus of your attention. By constantly worrying about it nothing can be gained, rather the problem will become more acute and intense.
2. Continue performing your duties in daily lie. Do not lose hope.
3. Derive strength from within your should through prayer, meditation and surrender to God.
4. Cultivate harmony in your nature through good association, selfless service and study of scriptures.
5. When you continue worrying about the problem, your spirit is surrounded by agitation and inability. Then even a simple problem assumes a mountainous proportion. On the other hand when you develop a calm temperament , even a most baffling problem yields to a simple solution.
6. Wit and watch. Do not be hasty Assert, “Even this will pass way.”
7. Perform your self-effort to the best of your capacity . do not think that any situation has the capacity to close all the gates to your progress. The spirit within you has limitless powers.
(Courtesy: International Yoga Guide)

Never arrive on Time!
Having served on various committees. I have drawn up a list of rules; Never arrive on time; this stamps you as a busy guy. Don’t say anything until the meeting is half over; this stamps you as being wise. Be as vague as possible; this avoids irritating the others. When in doubt, suggest that a subcommittee be appointed . be the first to move for adjournment; this will make you popular; it is what everyone is waiting for.

Something About You
Something in your smile speaks to me, something in your voice sings to me, something in your eyes shows me that you are the most dearest person to me, something in your talk fascinates me, something in your face enlightens me, something in your laugh makes me rejoice and I have no choice-except to know you would be the one I would always love to see, something about you makes me want to care, something in you is so rich and rare, for you are the one that I could trust and there is something in your charm that will never rust.

It is by the will of God that everything happens in this world, we forget this truth and happily ascribe our name to it.

Scripsi
Each had his past shut in him like the leaves of a book known to him by heart; and his friends could only read the title.


I drive joy

There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha

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Smile Please

Monday, 28 ,September-2009
Smile Please
A smile costs nothing, but gives much. It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor that he can be made rich by it. A smile creates happiness in the family , fosters goodwill in business , and is the countersign of friendship . it brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and it is nature’s antidote for trouble. Yet it cannot bought, begged, borrowed or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile. Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.
Is Someone Happier?
Is someone happier because you passed his way today? Did you bring a smile to a clouded face when you did not turn away? Is someone’s burden lighter for just a little lift, a pleasant word, a little boost, or perhaps some little gift? Do you feel content and happy when you settle down at night because you found a troubled friend and helped to set him right? A load is always lighter when a friend walks by your side. You cannot cure all ills, but at least you know, you tried. Let not one single day go by at home at work, at play unless someone is happier because you passed his way.
Work is Worship
In everything we make, create and produce there is an invisible ingredient, and this makes the difference between the better and the best, the ordinary and the extraordinary, the good and the excellent. The invisible ingredient is devotion. Any work can become a prayer if performed with the sacredness of devotion. If yo had all the money in the world would you still be doing the same work that you are doing right now? If your answer is ‘Yes’ then you are pursuing the right work. Else, kick the work that does not give you a kick. Find work that give you inner expression and you will find happiness in it. Make the world recognize this inner expression of your and you will find success through it. Be grateful to the work you do and you will move closer to God with it. Let the effects of the work you do be the signature you leave behind in this world.
The easiest way to live happily is to live honestly.


I drive joy

There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 5 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive from? I am not robbing you of your joy; why should you rob me of mine. He asked. The critics were silenced. –Baba- Chinna Katha

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