Self Image

Monday 2 December 2013

Self Image

Everyone likes to succeed in life, in order to succeed, we must develop right attitude. To begin with, any task we wish to complete , must be well begun. How would one say will begun”? it could be with right courage, perspective and above all self-esteem, which could really make a us competent to achieve anything.

Self –image is an important ingredient of self-esteem. It means our own opinion about ourselves’ if we hold a low opinion about ourselves, we stand discouraged before we start off. Any number of external inspiration cannot inspire us further. Remember, here are many hurdles in building up-right attitude about ourselves. Of them all low image plays a negative role and spoils our inter-personal relationship, performance of work and ultimately leading to failure whereas the attitude I can do it builds up our self esteem. Hereby giving us satisfying results. Self-esteem give strong conviction. Develops positive attitudes, inspires us to accept responsibilities , makes us self-inspired, improves our performance in work, thus leading to success in everything we do.

Special qualities of successful people

They are ambitious; successful people have an ambition and are about to recognize their capacity of being good at what they do.

When you see people who were doing better than you , you  assume they are better than you . that would mean they are superior and you are inferior . you have feeling of inferiority and these feelings are often translated into feelings of diffidence. You feel you don’t deserve to be successful.

They are courageous; they face the fears that hold most people back. The two biggest enemies of our success is fear and doubt. Eliminating fear and doubt is the key for success.

If you want to develop courage, then simply act courageously when it is called for . When you do something reputedly, you develop a habit.

If you do the thing you fear, your defeating the fear in certain. The ability to attack fear is the mark of the superior person.

They are committed; The top people in every field are completely committed . people who are not committed to what they do lead very empty lives. They believe in themselves they believe n their companies and their customers; believe in the rightness and the goodness of what they re doing.

They are prepared; they review every details in advance . to be in the top requires additional efforts. It requires doing things that the average person is not willing to do. It requires making sacrifices the average person is not willing to make.

They are contiguous learner; They recognize that if they are not continually getting better , they are getting worse. They read, they listen to great persons and they take additional training

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

As we unfold our spiritual consciousness, we think and live aright. Whatever approaches us we take at its proper valuation and not as it appears. Nothing can deceive us; therefore we do not labour for what is false and unreal. There are people who work faithfully, but they feel the burden of life because their effort does not bring the desired results why is this? It is because their effort is not controlled by discriminating. It is not directed by a purpose that is definite and single. Single heartedness does not come until we have the higher faculty of discrimination awakened within us; only then do we think consciously and we are not lead away by passing fancies. If something arises that appeals to us and arouses our desire, we do not struggle to gain it without reflecting whether it will bring us a blessing or not. 

The delusive power of God has played such a clever game that the King of the Universe forgetting his Real nature has become tiny jiva subject to all types of changes.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Winner –Who Thinks He can

 

Monday, 25,  November

 Winner –Who Thinks He can

If you think you are beaten , you are;

If you think you dare not, you don’t.

If you like to win, and don’t think you can,

If is almost certain you would not.

If you think you will lose, you are lost.

For in the world we find

Success being with the fellow’s wills it is all the state of mind.

Think big and your deeds will grow.

Think small and you will fall behind.

Think that you can and you will.

It is all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed you are,

You have got to think high and rise,

You have got to be sure of yourself.

Before you can win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster man,

But sooner or later the man who wins

Will be the fellow who thinks he can.

Mother’s Pledge

I will do my part to make our home a happy place of work, play, love, and worship.

I will keep a sense of humour and learn to laugh, even at myself, making it a habit to exercise my smiling muscles more and my tear ducts less.

I will give religion an important place in my heart and in our home, with definite time for prayer and family worship.

I will seek to understand and enjoy our children and appreciate each one dearly.

I will never punish to relieve my inner frustration but rather to bring good into the lives of our children.

I will lead them to an appreciation of beautiful literature , music, art and the world of nature about us.

I will lead them to appreciate and befriend people of all races to live above petty grievances and neighbourhood gossip.

I will take time to read, talk, and listen to our children, and to answer honestly all their questions about life.

I will do all I can to prepare them for happy useful living

Home Remedy For Sore Throat.

Try  this when you have a sore throat. Take Tea  mug and pour honey enough not to see the bottom. Then cut 3 to 5 lemon . Squeeze 6-10 cps of lemon juice into honey. Then fill the mug with water as much hot as you can get it. Stir honey, water and lemon juice well. If you have microwave. Heat it. Other wise add some more hot water. How you tea is ready. Drink it as hot as you can stand it the warmth will help your throat as well.

Why lemon when you have sore throat? Lemon will help dissolve the mucus and bacteria in your throat that is making ti sore. The honey will coat your throat so that it odes not hurt much to swallow as it works. But remember, if you cannot stand sour things you can cut down on the quantity of lemon juice in your drink. But it might not work as well.

Quote from the true Charm and Power of Vedanta

The Spirit of Consecration

Whatever thou doest , whatever thou eatest, whatever thou offerest as oblation, whatever thou givest and austerities thou performest , do that as an offering to Me. Thus thou shalt be freed from the bonds of action

He whose works proceed from himself does little good service to God; while he show suffer himself to be guided by the Holy Spirit , does great works ,even in small actions.

Without a spirit of consecration  our life must invariably remain unproductive. It is not that we do not work or that we do not try to do good. but we miss our aim because all our thoughts and actions , to hear real fruit, must be backed by something higher than our physical self. For that reason wise men have the habit of consecrating themselves in all that they undertake. There are two ways of doing everything –one, with small personal ends in view; the other, with the larger end of universal good. Each thing done can be consecrated or desecrated. A selfish aim will desecrated even the finest act. We see therefore that all this field of work  provided good nor bad . it is bad, if it makes us miss our goal. We cannot keep on revolving with the wheel of life aimlessly, we must learn to follow our higher instincts and not be distracted by the voices of the world. We must cultivate a true spirit of consecration.

IF HE EXIST

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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For a Healthy and Happy Life

Monday, 18,  November

 

 For a Healthy and Happy Life

Secret for longevity is adopting a right and positive attitude . it is about giving oneself a moment rest from living life on the fast track it is about listening to what our body is trying to tell us. We do not even realise when the sun rises  and when it sets! Days, months and often years, pass by without our having given enough thought to our emotional, mental or physical well-being.

Scientist believe that human beings have survival capacity of 100 years. Do we realise that because of the misuse, we subject ourselves to irregular and stressful lives we lead? We hardly live half our lfie spans. The stress, anxieties , fears an the physical ills that we surround ourselves with, lead to such shallow breathing that the human body degreases much faster. Given below are some very important facts that could change our lives.

Deadly Four; weight Blood Pressure, cholesterol and controlled, and blood sugar. If these are well controlled , chances are that you are on the road to good health. In fact, it is not one of the said factors , but their combined effect that causes greater harm.

Stress , a phenomenon that seems closely associated with our present day life style, affects everybody from the young to the old and is the key factor that develops this life threatening combination of the “deadly” four. We often react to prolonged stress by smoking tobacco chewing, over-eating , drinking too much and exercising too little , all of which only add fuel to fire.

Watch your Tempera: if you are the irritable and angry type, you are more prone to having a heart attack. In such cases, mediation and yoga helps.

Cheer Up: Strive to be happy and cheerful. Depression increases the risk of heart attacks, four fold! Make sure you walk regularly or exercise.

Watch your Belly : obesity , especially of the upper half of the body is an open invitation to heart dieses, diabetes and other diseases. In take of diets that are rich in whole grains. fruits and vegetable are advisable . avoid saturated fats, salt and sugar.

Go easy on your Bad Habits; Heavy drinking (alcoholism) and cigarette smoking promote abdominal fat storage. Excessive coffee intake too increase the risk of hypertension . turn a teetotaller or drink occasionally.

Tone up your metabolism ; Metabolic fitness that is measured by how well the body uses up the insulin, work towards talking heart diseases; stroke and diabetes.

Health Tip; Chew or boil and drink 20 curry leaves on an empty stomach, every morning.

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

Let us humbly seek our ideal and serve Him in every thought, word and action,. We cannot form and absolute ideal with the finite mind. But our ideal will grow and gradually become vast and all embracing, as the unbounded  Deity within us is able to manifest more and more His greatness. When he fills our whole heart, all pettiness and ignorance and self-seeking will vanish; and instead of thinking ourselves great through self importance, we shall feel ourselves great only in Him. Let us never forget that without His strength we are weak, with out His support we are sure to stumble ; but that if we will turn to Him whenever we have need of help. He will never fail to lead us out of the darkness and fill our groping mind with the light of understanding.

The sooner we turn to God, the better it will be for us; because as we delay , we retard our evolution and growth. He is the very essence of our being, our only Resting place, our one safe Guide and Protector. When we realize this and offer ourselves in complete surrender at His feet, then will he take our life, bless it, consecrate it and fill it full of divine beauty and holiness.

This world is like a garden and there is a care-taker for it. Dive deep into your heart. Never think that it is empty. Deep in your heart lives the Master of this garden.

O my mind! You are not aware of the fountain of bliss within you. Even a glimpse of that joy will make you wonder struck.

 

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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A loving friend adds to our happiness.

Monday, 11,  November

A loving friend adds to our happiness.

It is proved that the power of associating with good and reliable friends is strong . Man in the company of his talented and virtuous friends is influenced by them and he too exerts and influence upon them. It is said that the man who walks with wise friends shall be wise but a friend of fools without social and educational background shall be spoiled . experience has shown this to be true.

He that lives with cripples learns to limp. He that roams with wolves learns to howl. An English proverb says. “He that lies down with dogs shall rise with fleas . one bad apple does not keep the other apples good. It rots the rest of the apples too causing sever damage.

We cannot live among people who have differing ideas from our ideas because we will be influenced by their reasoning . either we change them or they will change us!

We need friends to help us lead a good and noble life. They should not tempt us to rebel against values in life. A whole hearted , self-sacrificing. Loving friend  strengthens us in time of trouble and adds to our happiness in time of joy and success.

Enthusiasm-vital  factor for success.

When we think of enthusiasm. We often thin of the joyful sprit of a football game where the spectator is a fan a short from of fanatic . the trick is to develop that same enthusiasm about reaching our goals.

There is nothing more boring than a dull TV show or a game played with no intensity. But add zest and excitement to these and what happens? The TV commands our complete attention, and the game brings us to our feet.

Life must have zest to be enjoyed . People to be successful. Must be excited about life. Look at the enthusiasm with which a healthy ,happy, child approaches life. It is a sad fact that too many o fus lose that zeal along the way, for whatever reason,. We can sometimes recapture it for a few minutes as at a ball game. But the world belongs to the person. Who can keep that fire burning all the time.

Enthusiasm is an attitude of curiosity, confidence and expectation along with a bit of risk and daring.

A basic requirement for achieving your goals is positive thinking  but that positive thinking must be fired up with action. The spark is enthusiasm. The degree of your courage is in direct proportion to the amount of enthusiasm you possess.

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

This is the purpose of all spiritual practice-to fortify us against that moments of trial and enable us to stand firmly, so that we may not lose our higher point of view and turn aside from the path. When we are able to make God a living Presence in our life, then His light will shed its radiance even in the hours of darkness and sadness.. this living consciousness of the Presence, however, cannot be forced. The veil must drop from mind. We must not allow ourselves to be intoxicated by unwholesome influence of the world, but we must open ourselves wholly to the more powerful influence of God. Nothing helps us to do this so much as the sprit of consecration.

But we should never talk of it. It is something to be expressed silently, as the flower opens in silence and unperceived; but that silent , enduring service to God will generate a power more potent than any material force we know.

The sun reflects in many pots of water, but is only one. Similarly though appearing in different bodies the Atman is one. This is true knowledge. Knowing this truth one should learn to respect all. This identification with all leads to self knowledge.

Lord Krishna is playing the flute in the Vridavan of our Heart, Blessed is he who is able to hear that sweet sound which leads to eternal happiness and peace.

As long as the Divine Spirit dwells in this body so long people honour and respect it. The moment the Divine being discards this body making it dead no one approaches the inert body. It is taken to the cremation ground.

 But If He Exist

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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