How to Make new Friendship

 

Monday, 17-December 2012

Everything is In his Hands

A man just got married and was returning home with his wife.  They were crossing a lake in a boat when suddenly a great storm arose. The man was a warrior, but the woman became very much afraid because it seemed almost hopeless-the boat was small and the storm was really huge, and any moment they were going to be drowned . But the man sat silently, calm and quiet, as if nothing was happening.

The woman was trembling and she said, “Are you not afraid ? This may be our last moment of life! It doesn’t seem that we will be able to reach the other shore. Only some miracle can save us, otherwise death is certain. Are you not afraid? Are you mad?”

The man laughed and took the sword out of its sheath. The woman was even more puzzled. Then the brought the naked sword close to the woman’s neck-so close that just a small gap was there , it was almost touching her neck. He asked. “Are you afraid?”

She started t laugh and said, “ why should I be afraid? It the sword is in your hands, why should I be afraid? I know you love me”.

He put the sword back and said, “This is my answer. I know God loves  me, and  the sword in His hands, and the storm is in His hands so whatsoever is going to happen is going to happen is going to happen is going to be good . if we survive, good; if we don’t survive , good because everything is in his hands, and he will not do anything wrong”. Such tremendous trust is capable of transforming your whole life!- Courtesy ; The Vision.

How to start a new friendship?

Begin in a conversation with a neighbour in the bus or at the theatre simply for the purpose of  initiating a conversation. If you speak to another person, the likelihood is that his aims might be somewhat similar to your own.

Most of the individuals who make up a crowd waiting at a railway station or at a theatre are jut a lonely as you are. No one says a word and everyone is bored. Someone must take the initiative to make the first step towards establishing a social contact.

Great minds are most coordinal and most friendly. I have known socially maladjusted adults felt insulted by the greeting of a stranger but I have never known a really good person to be so insulted.

Part of the technique of making friends consists in breaking the ice. It is for this reason that weather, sports and politics exist as topics of small conversation. They serve as the lubricating oil of human life and are as important as good manners.

To those who are incapable of making these contacts, I suggest to go up to strangers and inquire the time or the way to reach a certain address, regardless of the value of such information. This is the first step in training yourself to talk to strangers.

The second step in the art of making friends is making yourself valuable to the people you have contacted. It is a very good technique to begin with people who are overlooked by the average proud men and women. It is always valuable to be pleasant to elderly people , to cripples , to shy and timid persons and children.

It is encouraging to any elderly individual if a young man or woman comes up to talk with him/her.

Being attentive to the overlooked minority is doubly valuable because it gives you the opportunity of proving you social-mindedness. It not only enriches the overlooked and adds to the store of human happiness.  (condensed) Courtesy ‘Psychologist Magazine”

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

Now it may be asked; If in reality there is only one Soul in all, whence comes this diversity of souls in different individuals? We are born with the idea that every man has an independent soul. Yes , so it is; but that does not prove that there is any essential diversity of souls(SHIVA)  in individuals it is indeed true that there are innumerable numbers of images of the sun reflected in ponds , lakes , rivers, seas and waves, but that does not prove that there are many suns. The sun is one, only it appears to be many when reflected in water or glass . such is the case here . The Universal Soul is reflected in every individual, and from this springs the diversity. When a man comes to know this true Self, of which he is an image and becomes one with it, he finds himself reflected in all.

When he reaches that supreme state and gains a permanency there, he is one with eternal , omnipresent , omnipotent and omniscient Mind-the Universal Soul; that is , he finds himself to be the Brahman; He is then above al trouble and turmoils of the world; free from all its cares and anxieties, seeing himself in all, and all in himself, and feeling himself to be the one Soul of the entire creation. Now he exclaims with he Great Maharshi Ashtavakra, “The universe has emanated from me, it is destined to end in me, as and earthen vessel loses itself in earth at last, as the waves die in water, as a golden ornament, losing its from, become gold in the end. O joy! I how down to my eternal Self which has no end even when all beings , from the highest to the lowest, with the entire universe, die O joy! I bow down to myself, as I am alone without a second and even though I have a body, I neither come nor go; for I cover the shoe Universe.

O joy! I bow down to myself; for there is none abler and clever than myself as the universe is held in my body, without even touching it. O joy! I bow down to myself who has nothing , or has all that can be comprehended by thought and language.’

 

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Smile spreads joy in life

Monday, 10-December 2012

Smile spreads joy in life

A smiling face is among our greatest personal assets, its physical value is seen when a perfectly plain face becomes attractive when it is lit up with a radiant smile. Smiling changes the very contours of the face instead of the worried lines the smile puts humours wrinkles across the forehead.

Mentally and socially too, smiling is of great value. The mental attitude of hopefulness produces the smile which in its turn stimulates and purifies the process of thinking. Smiling produces. a feeling of happiness. It awakens friendly feelings in those to whom it is directed. It prepares the ground for healthy relationship.

There is a certain tension between the meeting of two human beings. A smile helps to remove this tension . The person who give the smile eases his way into the human relationship. The person who receives the smile is put at ease, and secures a certain uplift to his ego. A smile can enrich our own lives and the lives of those with whom we come into contact.

When people try to help us, or tanks us, or reward us, let there be genuine smiling, heart warming appreciation of what they are doing. Learn the art of giving and serving with a smile if we really want to get happiness and to cultivate the ready smile, let us spend more time doing things for other people for the love of doing them. Finally, practise tranquillity . when a man is calm, peaceful-he has a serene and smiling face.

Wear a smile, the most adorable of ornaments to beautify your face. A smile is the most natural and most effective exercise for the face. Your secret for success and popularity in life is warm, intimate smile that breaks the hardest attitudes and evokes immediate response.

Few people are aware of the magical quality of a smile. For people who need a lift in their sagging spirits there is not elixir as powerful as a smile . as the sunshine of life, smile pierces through the gloom of sorrow and spreads joy in life.

Tutsi the powerful medicinal properties.

Scientists say that Tulsi, a sacred Hindu plant, has powerful medicinal properties . It has been found useful in warding off and even curing peptic ulcer and other stress-related illness, Peptic ulcers, heart disease, hypertension, colitis and even asthma has responded to tulsi treatment. Regular use of tulsi as tea or simply chewing its fresh leaves, help minimise day-to-day strains it may also provide a disease-free life.

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

Remember always that purity and self-control are the greatest treasures in life. Unless you have perfect control over the senses and purity of heart you cannot progress in the path of spirituality  but when  you have these nothing can hurt you or resist you. Always be watchful and pray to the Divine Mother to keep you spotless from all worldliness and egotism. Look to Her for help and guidance. She will make you strong and pure and inspire you more and more with Her Power. So long as Her love and blessings surround you, you are safe.

Self control is gained  through the practice of non-attachment . attachment is a habit and can be overcome by forming a new habit. Hundreds of times you may fail, but you know that unless you learn control you cannot have peace . so practice needs patience. You must struggle continually until you become perfect. Yo must start just where you are standing now. You must not complain but begin where you are and move onward and onward. Even though you fail thousands of times, you must still struggle to over come  those desires and passions which disturb the lake of your mind ad do not let you see your Divine Self at the bottom. Do not think that when you fail, all that you have gained is LOST. No; each time you rise after failure, you acquire fresh strength.

Do not be in a hurry; al that you have within will manifest itself in time; Work in moderation. Moderation is the only way to gain health , happiness and peace. When you observe this, then all your efforts will be crowned with success.

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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Tackle Your Emotions With Care.

 

Monday, 3-December 2012

Tackle Your Emotions With Care.

Life never has a smooth path . Our journey on it is bumpy . Many a time we find ourselves in a crisis. We feel desperate, helpless, lonely and depressed. Causes of this may be many and vary from person to person. But the solution to it is certainly similar. If we learn how to cope up with emotional crisis. We may be able to tackle this more gracefully.

When you find yourself in a situation of this sort, keep, communication open and ongoing. Don’t suppress your feelings and thing that others might belittle you. Sure, yo will have somebody in your family or your social circle, lean on them. A talk to someone about your problems may promote your mental health, ease you our of an embarrassing moment of your life., certainly, it serves as an outlet to your pent up anger and helplessness.

Yet another way to overcome an emotional crisis is getting involved in support group and accepting help with no second thought . when you are down and out, that is when you need others to lift up your spirits, you need a few words of encouragement with the help of which you will be in a better position to regain your lost self-confidence.

A counsellor can lend a helping hand to you. They help you define, understand, and cope up with your problems . you must understand, that when you are distraught, you need to be more focused . when you are made to understand, you will be able to find a solution for your own problem. Slowly you develop the needed acumen to handle your emotions when a similar situation arises your life.

Criticize Effectively

When something goes wrong, you are tempted to criticize the person responsible for it. The temptation to label the person as “careless” is very easy, but criticism needs to be used as correctional tool without any anger whatsoever.

Criticize only in private. To do otherwise would mean loss of face and perhaps calling the value of the correction.

Preface criticism with kind words. You must acknowledge the persons previous efforts to do work well.

Your comments should be corrected at the act, not at the person

Do not expect the change immediately.

Avoid overemphasizing mistake again and again. If necessary tell how to do it right. .

Ask for cooperation and never demand it. An implied, “Let us work this out together..” is most effective.

It is always better to state clearly what needs improvement.

It is best to begin with a morale booster, end up in a positive fashion showing faith in a person’s willingness and ability to comply. This sets the stage for the acceptance of your suggestions for improvement. (courtesy Inspirational Quotes.)

Keep well and Cheerful

Some men are born old and some never seem so . if we keep well and cheerful we are always young and at last die in youth, even when years would count us old.

THE GREATEST VICOTIRES ARE THE LEAST NOISY.

QOUTE FROM THE TRUE CHARM AND POWER OF VEDNATA

Than the Gita no better commentary on the Vedas has been written or can be written . The essence of the Shrutis, or of the Upanisads, is hard to be understood, seeing that there are so many commentators, each one trying to interpret in his own way. Then the Lord Himself comes, He who is the inspirer of the Shrutis, to show us the meaning of them, as the preacher of the Gita, and today India wants nothing better than that method of interpretation.

 But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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If we fail the Motherland

 

Monday, 26 November 2012

If we fail the Motherland

Our primary duty is to zealously guard our freedom against dangers from without and from within.

We have also to end users that the humblest among us has the same stature as the tallest in the land, that labour gets its legitimate share of its product, that the toiling millions in villages obtain a just return for the sweat of their brow, and that the sate discharges adequately its elementary duty  of feeding, clothing, housing and educating every son and daughter of the Motherland. It has now been given to us by God to fashion our country’s destiny according to our cherished ideals and aspirations.

If we fail the Motherland the blame will not lie at others doors, Indeed , there are enormous difficulties and very great obstacles in our way, but it is for us to overcome them.

(Independence Day Speech)

Be Active

Take a book and start reading. Start writing a letter to one of your friends or relatives. God to a spiritual or social gathering . Change your environments; go in the open enjoy fresh air and a walk. Gardening or any other exercise will help. Do not overcrowded your mind with too many problems of worrying nature. Come to grips with one at a time. When all else fails, entrust your worrying problem to your supreme Lord.

Take a closer look at what you buy and use

As consumers we need to become more aware of what goes on behind and what goes into the products we use daily, and to find out their impact on the environment . take a closer look at what you buy and use.

Reject products whose manufacturing process is likely to damage the environment. This could include brands which come from companies known to pollute the environment, or those that involve cruel testing on animals.

Do read the small print on packages and bottles so that you can avoid products which contain environmentally un safe ingredients. For instance, most detergents, contain phosphates which are definitely harmful to the environment.

Overcome mental depression for better life.

Today mental depression is a real and tragic fact of life. Even brave and brilliant persons suffer from feelings of helplessness. Mental  depression produces changes in the functioning of body and mind making the person ineffective.

For a sizeable number of persons, mental depression leads to continuo0us feelings of hopelessness. There  are also examples of lifelong mental depression and emptiness resulting from guilt and shame. 

Eventually such persons commit suicide unable to free themselves from total loss of self-respect. There are also some most depressed persons, who are too ashamed to admit to anyone that they cannot cope with the series of problems in life.

A man’s exposure to mental depression depends on encouragement, values, love or support he is denied in the earlier years of his life. Mental depression is also caused when a man reaches a breaking point in series of unfortunate setbacks in life.

When mental depression comes  do not allow yourself to be cast down by it but make the best of it. Always look forward for better things, for more prosperous conditions, Many great heroes of the world met with metal  depressions.  However they’d freed themselves from the illness by tapping the right power and resources to deal with hopeless situations. Out of weakness. They became strong and out of suffering they became mature.

Any depressed man should rid himself of mental depression although it may take time to fully recover . Taking failures as stepping stones for success and remembering that God has provided built-in-power to overcome even the worst that happens in life, is the first step to overcome mental depression. When you face mental depression fill your mind with faith and hope and keep busy with some useful activity as not to give time from depression.

Quote from the True Charm and Power of Vedanta

Let us , however, see whether science at any time will be able to know all about the universe. All scientific researches are based upon ordinary sense perception, which holds the outer universe to be an independent existence, ie, something quite independent of mind whether we are conscious of it or not, it exists. It also holds that we derive all our knowledge about it through our sense-organs and garner it in our minds. , Now, it is also a fact that the universe is infinite in every way, for we can never imagine the limit of space in which it is located. If we start in a railway train with incredible velocity to find out the end of space in any direction whatever, it will not be possible fro us to come to the limit even at the end of several  years, for there will remain space enough to travel still further . material particles being both infinitely scattered and indestructible, the universe which is made out of the them must also be infinite and indestructible as will, although sometime it may remain in a manifested and sometime in an unmanifested condition.

 

 

But, if He exists?

I drive joy There was a doctor in Benaras who spent 7 minutes in the morning and evening for mediation on God. Knowing this, his colleagues and friends laughed at him. One day they argued that he was wasting ten precious minutes on something, which he had been misled into believing. The doctor replied, “Well, if God does not exist, I agree that I am wasting ten minutes a day. But, if He exists? I am afraid you are wasting your entire lifetime. I prefer to waste ten minutes rather than a lifetime. Why should you grudge me the 10 minutes joy that I derive 4m.

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